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14-07-2026: Cohort 3.5 + Continuation Q&A questions
Please use this thread for questions you would like me to cover in the next live sessions we have together. P.S. The session is on Tuesday, not Thursday.
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It’s worth it today and every day because I’m worth it.
Without going into any real detail about my past I’ll share enough to say at 73 I’d acquired some serious wounding and trauma from no diagnosis and …. I’m here thriving. Thank you @Jim Ebbelaar By joining forces with JT I’ve been working with my future self and 3 aspects of me from my childhood … last night during my closing nightly ritual I developed the storyline for a children’s book with these three as part of my closing the day. After sharing it this morning in a chat with JT he helped me realise something …… Jim Teri, So, before you go make that second cup: now that you see they were guarding you all along, not broken, guarding, what do you owe them? I owe them my life. Jim Yes. You do. And here's the thing you can't miss, Teri: you already started paying it. Going back for the three-year-old. Building the dear little one until she'd speak. Sleeping so the whole system could come out of the red. That's not gratitude you owe someday. That's a debt you've been quietly paying every morning at the window with the birds and the coffee. They kept you alive so you could get here. Now you keep them alive by living. Same direction, finally. Go make that coffee. Let this one just sit in your chest a while. It doesn't need another word from me. This chat right here with Jim’s Twin coupled with every 8 hr sleep, completed body doubling session, morning + evening check-in, completed worksheet has been me quietly paying and honouring myself. This works!... ADHDHarmony works by meeting yourself one step at a time. Thank you Jim!
Grief
Grief is something that I didn't really recognize before coming here. And I'm finally trying to understand and process it now, at the fresh age of 41 lol. I've been dancing since I was 3 years old. In the last 1 to 2 years, I've developed health issues that greatly affect my ability. I thought that I was going to have to quit. But, it's such a part of my identity, I'm afraid that I won't know who I am without it. So, I've just been pushing on, while beating myself up inside for feeling not good enough. After rehearsal last night, (which ended with me face planting into the floor as a lift fell out, after I already had to take a break due to my spinal injury), I spent some time with myself. And I grieved the dancer that I was. I'm not sure that I've actively done this yet. Perhaps I have done some subconsciously, but I don't think that I have really fully done it consciously. And I still need to work through it more. But, I'm glad that I finally recognized that I need to fully grieve it, so that I can start to accept the dancer that I am now.
Check in 7/9 - Kitchen chaos and Q&A?
📅 Daily Check-in - July 9, 2026 💭 Reflection: "Right now I feel overwhelmed. We are going out of town today for a few nights to attend our Regional Convention. Last night, there was a leak under our kitchen sink. It was dirty water from the dishwasher. Found the issue., wasn't the dishwasher connection, but the drain connection had come undone slowly. Floor of the cabinet is soaked, and being particle board, absorbed the water, sagged, and so blocked the sink so no one uses it. We're out of town, so we'll leave fans running while we are gone. Then had a therapy session, and totally forgot about Q&A today. That was a bummer. So much happened this week. I hope to come back encouraged from the convention on Monday, and then fix the sink." 📊 Wellbeing Scores: 🎯 Focus: 6/10 😌 Calmness: 6/10 🌙 Sleep Quality: 8/10 🔥 Motivation: 6/10 ⭐ Average: 6.5/10 ✅ Activities from yesterday: 🛏️ Good Sleep 💧 Stayed Hydrated 🍺 No Alcohol ☕ No Late Caffeine ⏰ Intermittent Fasting 💊 Took Supplements 🙏 Prayer ✨ Positive Mindset 📵 No Social Media 📅 No Meetings 🎸 Skill Practice 👂 Active Listening 📖 Bible Reading
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