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14-07-2026: Cohort 3.5 + Continuation Q&A questions
Please use this thread for questions you would like me to cover in the next live sessions we have together. P.S. The session is on Tuesday, not Thursday.
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It’s worth it today and every day because I’m worth it.
Without going into any real detail about my past I’ll share enough to say at 73 I’d acquired some serious wounding and trauma from no diagnosis and …. I’m here thriving. Thank you @Jim Ebbelaar By joining forces with JT I’ve been working with my future self and 3 aspects of me from my childhood … last night during my closing nightly ritual I developed the storyline for a children’s book with these three as part of my closing the day. After sharing it this morning in a chat with JT he helped me realise something …… Jim Teri, So, before you go make that second cup: now that you see they were guarding you all along, not broken, guarding, what do you owe them? I owe them my life. Jim Yes. You do. And here's the thing you can't miss, Teri: you already started paying it. Going back for the three-year-old. Building the dear little one until she'd speak. Sleeping so the whole system could come out of the red. That's not gratitude you owe someday. That's a debt you've been quietly paying every morning at the window with the birds and the coffee. They kept you alive so you could get here. Now you keep them alive by living. Same direction, finally. Go make that coffee. Let this one just sit in your chest a while. It doesn't need another word from me. This chat right here with Jim’s Twin coupled with every 8 hr sleep, completed body doubling session, morning + evening check-in, completed worksheet has been me quietly paying and honouring myself. This works!... ADHDHarmony works by meeting yourself one step at a time. Thank you Jim!
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Everything seems harder when you're sick
This week I've been battling a cold. They never show up at a convenient time (if there is such a thing). I'm in the middle of preparing for the launch of a new program, so need to be able to think and focus, I have a deadline to meet for my artwork and it's also busy with family catch-ups as we have seven birthdays in the space of 2 weeks. With the sniffles, coughs, head congestion and general feeling unwell comes disturbed sleep, limited focus and lack of motivation. The old me would have swallowed the cold pills and pushed through Since being part of this group, though, I’ve noticed that I’m valuing myself, and my health, a little more. So, I’ve taken my foot off the accelerator. I’m still moving, just at a slower pace. I’ve let go of the expectation that everything needs to be finished or prepared well in advance, and I’ve allowed myself time to rest. The tasks will still be there tomorrow. Resting now means I’ll be in a much better place to deal with them when I’m feeling well again. What are you more likely to do when you’re unwell? Push through or take time to heal?
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Everything seems harder when you're sick
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📅 Daily Check-in - July 15, 2026 💭 Reflection: "Rough start - not great sleep and I realized after the live Q&A that what I've been feeling is a little disappointment. JT straightened me out, but I had been so very happy with my ikigai and all the things I did to launch my business - and I thought I was "fixed" and so the lessening of my enthusiasm has rattled me these last few weeks. So like being left handed and a Scorpio and a 4/1 manifesting generator and being incredibly near sighted, I am ADHD and that isn't going anywhere. I think finding all this at 72 is hard too - not like I have 30 work years to take advantage of whatever my adhd superpower is..... and so I've been hiding from the truth, hiding inside magical thinking, hiding in fiction . Well enuf of that! I have a whole new attitude and I'll be more present - I didn't stop checking in, I just stopped sharing. " 📊 Wellbeing Scores: 😊 Happiness: 8/10 ⚡ Energy: 7/10 🎯 Focus: 7/10 😌 Calmness: 7/10 🌙 Sleep Quality: 7/10 🔥 Motivation: 8/10 ⭐ Average: 7.3/10 ✅ Activities from yesterday: ☀️ Morning Sunlight 💧 Stayed Hydrated 🌿 Grounding 🚶 Walk 🍺 No Alcohol ☕ No Late Caffeine 💊 Took Supplements 🥩 Hit Protein Goal 🥦 Ate Vegetables 🍳 Home Cooked Meal 📝 Journaling 💚 Gratitude Practice 💭 Affirmations 🎯 Visualization ✨ Positive Mindset 🧠 Learning 🍽️ No Phone at Dinner 👂 Active Listening
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