Ever wonder why guys chase pussy like it's the holy grail? Here's the uncomfortable truth most men don't want to hear: there's nothing inherently special about what's between a woman's legs. For those who've had abundance, you know this. For those still putting it on a pedestal, buckle up. THE THEORY OF 100 I call it the "Theory of 100" - and it nearly perfectly aligns with what researchers call the "orgasm gap." The premise is simple: imagine you've had 10 partners and had sex 10 times with each. How many times did you climax? For men, flip it - how many times did you NOT climax? My sample came from an unlikely source: roller derby. As an official, I had access to roughly 2000 women (90%+ straight, the rest bisexual) and 400 straight men at after-parties and tournaments. These weren't college kids - we're talking housewives to lawyers, doctors to waitresses. Real people with real experience. THE BRUTAL NUMBERS Here's what I found (and what academic research confirms): Women's Reality: - High outliers (50 women): Came 90%+ of the time - Low end (120 women): Never came from PIV sex without toys - The vast majority (92%): Only came about 25% of the time Men's Reality: - Failed to finish: 3-8 times out of 100 - Main reasons: Too drunk, performance anxiety, or rubbed one out before the date Academic studies back this up. The orgasm gap shows men climaxing 70-85% of the time while women hover between 46-58%. That's a 22-30 point gap that nobody talks about. THE BREAKDOWN NOBODY WANTS TO HEAR When I dug deeper with the women, patterns emerged: - 3 partners they never climaxed with (faked it to end it) - 1 partner who got them there every single time (10/10) - 1 partner who delivered 8/10 times - 2 partners who managed about 50% success rate - The rest? Forgettable Why the massive variance? The reasons were predictable: - Lack of foreplay - Self-consciousness (especially with hot guys) - Attractive but terrible in bed - New partner anxiety - Uncomfortable locations

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