Feminism is Socially Accepted Misandry
When fathers exhibit harmful behavior toward their children, it is frequently linked to specific personality traits, such as those outlined in the Dark Triad: narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy. Research suggests individuals with these traits prioritize self-interest over empathy, which can manifest in neglectful or abusive parenting. Such traits may also intersect with societal patterns; some argue that certain interpersonal attractions or cultural norms inadvertently reward these characteristics, perpetuating cycles of dysfunction. While this topic warrants deeper exploration, the core issue remains distinct from ideological influences, focusing instead on individual psychology. Feminism, Gender Role Reversal, and Parenting: Feminism’s critique of traditional gender roles has undeniably reshaped societal expectations. However, critics contend that its modern iterations often invert these roles rather than dismantle them, fostering adversarial dynamics. For mothers, this shift may manifest in two extremes: over-coddling sons to fit a sanitized, non-competitive ideal or, in cases of resentment, subjecting them to emotional or psychological harm. The former approach, while well-intentioned, risks stifling resilience and ambition, while the latter reflects a broader cultural tension where maternal authority can morph into dominance. Simultaneously, men are increasingly pressured to adopt passivity, suppressing traits like assertiveness to align with revised social norms. This role reversal, critics argue, generates confusion and dissatisfaction, particularly among women who may feel alienated from innate desires for partnership and motherhood. Data on declining female happiness in Western societies is often cited as evidence of this dissonance, though interpretations vary. Rhetoric, Victimhood, and Asymmetric Accountability: Central to the critique is feminism’s framing of gender relations. Men are broadly cast as beneficiaries of systemic oppression (“the patriarchy”), while women are portrayed as perpetual victims. This narrative, critics argue, dismisses male experiences of vulnerability and female agency. For instance, cases of female aggression toward men are frequently minimized or excused, reinforcing a cultural double standard. Such asymmetry not only undermines accountability but also perpetuates mistrust between genders.