Hi i know be freind and all that but still some skill to game is good to get things going. Any good programs, tips books besides models. Or a a very good guide on how to start/improve with exercsises and things to do
To better understand this, what is the difference between a woman out with a "bunch of her girlfriends/girlfriends and guys" vs a girl that is out and surrounded by male orbiters? I know enough that it's better not to be seen as one of the "obiters" vying for her attention/time. Those guys never get anywhere from what I've noticed.
It is not money. Something that is hardly talked about is a US law that women can use to get to the USA without you. If a woman can get you accused of domestic violence- not even convicted, she can get an exemption to her visa and go to the USA solo without you.
Hello everyone! I'm new to the MOA community and wanted to start by introducing myself. I will be finishing up grad school by end of year and am looking to do a deep-dive on MOA once I'm settled in and have a well paying job. I wanted some input regarding living arrangements and best cities for dating/MOA. NYC born and raised, currently living in NJ, about an hour from NYC. Currently between taking a job in Denver, CO or a job in NJ. Denver job will pay a lot more, but NJ job keeps me close to NYC. I am looking to really optimize my dating, and was wondering how you guys would approach such a decision? NYC gives you more options with dating and events, but I would be earning less and wouldn't be living in NYC just visiting on weekends/holidays. I know nothing about Denver aside from it being a decent-sized city in CO. Cheers!
Had a girl tell me she didn’t wanna see me anymore. She comes into my town every month for a week, last month shew blew me off. This time, I called her out on it, and she responded that she was mad I hadn’t bought her a drink last time. Silly gal. She was attractive, but oh well.
Cool interview with Todd. I've bought some of his programs, I think he is one of the better coaches. At some point I will get back into dating. I am focusing on money right now so I can move to Miami or smth.
I recently posted about a discussion my wife and I had, and I received some valuable suggestions on how to approach the situation. Following the advice, I decided to give my wife more time, communicate with her, and work towards resolving any problems. However, a recent conversation with her has left me deeply perplexed. After years of legal battles, I finally gained custody of my children from my ex-wife, and I've been raising them alongside my wife's 3 and 4-year-old sons since they were young. This morning, my wife expressed gratitude for everything I've done for her, her children, and her parents who moved from Venezuela. Unexpectedly, she then admitted that what I've done for her and her kids is beyond her capabilities. She confessed that she struggles to spend time with them as a mother would and, shockingly, suggested that I send my children back to their biological mother. She asserted that this would allow our life to return to how it was before. Stunned, I managed to respond by acknowledging her feelings and agreeing to the arrangement, but I emphasized the need for changes in how we approach things moving forward. While I haven't outlined the specifics of these changes, I have a general idea of what needs to be addressed. This revelation has left me lost for words and battling a surge of emotions. Despite my initial reaction, I refrained from expressing anger physically and opted for a more measured response. I'm now in the process of formulating a plan for how to move forward with this newfound information, all while grappling with the emotional toll of the situation.
Greetings, gentlemen, I hope you're all well today. I'm here to discuss a matter close to my heart, a conversation I had with my wife that I believe warrants your insight. I usually keep such matters private, but I've come to value the wisdom and perspective of this group, which is why I'm sharing it here. To provide some context, my wife and I have been undergoing counseling, and we've received varying opinions from different psychologists, including the esteemed Dr. Jordan Peterson. Despite our differences, we have a strong foundation, especially when it comes to our responsibilities and commitments, particularly as parents. The essence of our recent conversation revolved around the advice from these psychologists and how we can apply it to our relationship. We acknowledge our compatibility, which makes these changes challenging. However, I took the initiative to suggest that we should work on achieving certain goals together to foster continued growth in our relationship. Her initial response took me aback. She mentioned that it was my fault, asserting that all I do is focus on the children and spend time with them. I responded by reminding her that we were discussing these issues precisely to find solutions. I asked her what we could do differently to ensure that we continue to evolve as a team. Her reply, somewhat frustratingly, was that I needed to stop placing her last and make having a wife a priority rather than an option. She then walked out of the room. I must admit, I was quite upset at this point, but I decided to take some time to reflect, which led me to seek your valuable perspectives. My confusion stems from why she wouldn't engage in a discussion about potential solutions that could benefit us both, rather than placing blame solely on me. I acknowledge my part in our challenges, but I'm puzzled as to why we couldn't focus on finding clear, mutual solutions. I eagerly await your thoughts and insights on this matter. Your input would be greatly appreciated. Thank you for listening.
Reminder to keep milk in the refrigerator and bleach in the closet- and remember how foolish and low-status you look trying to pretend the hot party girl is going to be loyal to you. imagine marrying a woman who goes out "drinking and dancing" at clubs with her single friends 💀
A good chunk of the women refuse to give me their number even though they’re said they would come . I’m still relatively new so I’m still inviting them to my event, but nothing good has ever come from women refusing to give me their number. How would you handle these women? Toyin
Hey! I got the oneitis handled so thank you MOA. But now as life goes on guys i have a new problem which i need help with. I used to brag alot with who i fucked and i have a strong reputation becouse also the girls i banged talk to eachother and i am known as a fuck boy. Fucked mostly local girls and i have a name for it now and now girls avoid me except the ones for fast sex. I want to try something longterm now as i am in the game 10yeara already. How to get it handled without having to move location? How should i react 👋 Embrace it ? Tell it was all lies? No reaction? Stay silent and find the one who doesnt know or doesnt care about it? Thank you:)
I’m making the assumption that many people use telegram already. This is simple but helpful I hate how much time it takes to add things to a true calendar, so for things that aren’t strict business. I simply keep this “template” on my saved section of telegram. I just have the 7 days written out. As you schedule dates, put the ig link under the portion of the day it is and a time. If it’s an event, you add the link to the event ig page. That way, If you have multiple dates or events stacked on the same day, you can prioritize which one has to get canceled or rescheduled. You can also know what your backups are. Having the event or persons ig link lets you easily go to the profile and decide how interested you are or read previous conversations. Beauty of telegram is that you can edit your saved message and pin it if you’ve posted other things inside. On Sunday., just paste a blank schedule as the most recent message Monday Afternoon Evening Tuesday Afternoon X- date ig link 2 pm Evening Wednesday Afternoon X friends lunch 1 pm X date ig link Evening Thursday Afternoon Evening X- date ig link 8pm Friday Afternoon Evening X- event ig link 8pm Saturday Afternoon Evening Sunday Afternoon Evening
Hello men, I am currently dating 5 girls. Everyone wants to meet every day/week. I can not give more than 1 day a week. It is hampering my work. What to do? How should I manage it? I am currently double dating on a single day, 3-6 pm with one, then 6-9 pm with one.
I absolutely believe in pre-selection. However, photos that I upload onto Photofeeler of me & some girls, always get rated poorly with most comments stating "would prefer a photo of them alone." If pre-selection works, why is this happening? Should I disregard these ratings and use those photos of myself on on dating apps?
I remember when I couldn't get any DMs opened... I remember when I wasn't getting any matches... I remember when it was difficult to get girls to respond... It's insane what status can do. I wake up to new girls following me on my IG almost daily now (here's my page https://www.instagram.com/anthonypdirico/) I hit them with a one word logistical question, "Hollywood? 🍒" seeing if they're in my area and a good portion of them are super responsive. This one was as easy as butter. We're setting a time to meet up this weekend. "If you build it they will come" was a quote from Field of Dreams but is truer than ever in MOA. Status is something that's BUILT and CREATED and once it's established you can bear the fruits of it forever. Happy 4th of July, gentlemen! Hope you guys have a great holiday weekend. Keep crushing it 💪
Hey guys I'm from the Portland area I'm going to a breakup right now it's really hard on me I lost everything most contemplating suicide at one point it's embarrassing to talk about I made a friend the same day he's one of the members on here I'm really trying to find myself I really want to succeed financially mentally and spiritually inside within we hold the torch that runs who we are as men
Girls usually want the guy that's tall and strong. There’s no big secret as to why big, handsome alpha males get all the girls. However, there are instances where the guy is able to beat the system. I'll share mine: When I was in Latin America a couple years ago I stayed at a penthouse with a couple other guys. One of them, Kyle (I forgot his name so I'm using that one) didn't have a hard time dating down there. He was 5'5'', in his late 30s, bald, 50 pounds overweight, didn't own a suit, and worked as a teacher (Connecticut IIRC). I don't think he had IG but he apparently got his dates from Tinder. He has admitted to paying for sex on occasion. I never asked him but I wouldn't be surprised if he had a hard time dating in America so that's why he dates girls overseas. He told me he had 14+ day streaks where he would bang a girl (ugly or not). He would also get some stunners every now and then. What worked for him: Even with a teacher's salary most guys don't make that much in Latin American countries. Kyle would tell me if he wanted to especially meet up with a girl he would offer to fly her out to where he's staying if she was on the other side of the country. He showed me his Tinder account, I saw that he had professionally edited pictures where he was in multiple countries (scarce resources). He's pretty open minded. Like I mentioned before, he has admitted to paying for sex, he also was into drugs lilke shrooms. If Kyle wanted to settle down he's be doing it out of abundance and not because he is dying for female attention. Also, nobody is aspiring to be Kyle, ideally get your income streams going when you're young and if you're overweight lose weight.
I recently got a haircut and that was all it took for me to be a serious contender. I'm not making a lot of money at the moment but I know this is my year dating and career wise. This is my first entry and it won't be my last...might as well start it off with a bang. Chatted up with this attractive girl at the grocery. She complimented my haircut and I teased her saying it's cooler than hers and she laughed. That's always my mindset and it doesn't matter if she's a supermodel. The girl is getting an upgrade by being with me. Tomorrow I will talk more and ask her out. I will try to get her # and not her social media but if push comes to shove I guess I will have to work on my IG seriously. I 100% have a good feeling with this one. I think I have a very good read on her and can talk to her like no other guy has ever done with her.
Feel like if i bang girls that are not overly or super hot it decreasea my status. I am feeling this coretly or am i overthinking? Banged a super hot girl and when she got the information i banged a less hot one she didnt like it. So any thoughts? I am not braging and breaking the rule just trying make peace in my mind and finding a way to deal with it. Somethimes after concerts its relly easy to get some casual sex for no work thats why i like it.
OK the Title is a clickbait. I get asked this question all the time : "What should my Invite be to invite some female friends I met at a photoshoot or Babes In Toyland or the nightclub out to a container event" I got asked this again today around 3:30pm so I walked my talk and sent this message to 2 girls. Its not rocket science y'all. One of the girls in this chat I have met only once its not like we have years of relationship... Your invite is not that important at this stage. It is when you are sending a cold DM ofcourse and MOA has an entire module on this. At this stage, Its all about compliance and break in rapport. Did you sufficiently break rapport during your inperson interaction at the top of the funnel event? Did she enjoy your company and think you are fun to hang out with? Do your stories show you doing cool shit and creating tons of FOMO ? Thats it! Your invite will not determine whether she comes out with you on a container event . I would recommend it is something fun and interesting - helps with your odds ofcourse. But focus on break in rapport in person instead of trying to figure out the best WORDS you can send in a message! P.S. : I asked them to throw a drink in my face to create a reel for foster friday foundation in the voice memo. Its gonna be epic lmao
Having female friends has changed my life. Most Recent Exhibit : https://www.skool.com/men-of-action-free/weekly-reminder-get-female-friends?p=5ce97137 . Its been incredible y'all just incredible. But there are some downsides to having a lifestyle where women come in and out of your life especially if there are certain women you are emotionally invested in. A lot of these downsides I believe are due to lack of maturity - men who are not experieced enough are not mature enough to deal with the uncertainity that comes with this lifestyle. The first time I had a "charge it to the game" event, I DMed Michael at 4am in the morning (this was last year btw) asking for a 1:1 😂 almost in tears.... Charge it to the game situations are painful but they are part of the game and important for you to learn from. Just yesterday, a girl I have dated before and am very attracted to messaged me how she is now in love with another guy. Typically when things like this happen, I double tap the message or reply "lol" or something and never exhibit any emotional response. I know that is what I NEED to do. However, I have still always had an emotional response to these situations even though I never show it to anyone. Yesterday, when she sent me this message about being in love with another guy, I literally felt nothing. I just double tapped and replied to the next person in my DMs. I would have forgotten about the whole thing had she not replied to one of my stories today and I realized "Holy Shit, I didnt feel bad or jealous?!" I am so surprised at my response - I didnt spend any time thinking about her or how this "result" reflects on me (it most likely doesnt). I actually literally didnt react to it... This is HUGE for me btw, becoming actually unreactive to such situations has been a HUGE goal and no self talk or advice or book has been able to help.. Anyways the point I want to make is something @Michael Sartain told me in a 1:1 last year when I called him almost in tears - "Dude, You Need More Reference Experiences" More reference experiences make you more mature. It makes you desensitized to some of the bullshit that comes with having multiple women come in and out of your life. No "bro you need abundance" talk would have prepared me for this outcome. It took a few "charge it to the game" situations to become desensitized to them. Also your perspective changes when you get feedback confirming that you are playing an infinite game and not a finite game because that is really what life in general is for us.
Hey guys! I just joined and am excited to be here. I just left my partner and am excited to create new possibilities. Currently I live in Denver Colorado and am exploring new options for place to live and wanted to ask where are the best places to build a network of beautiful women who come to my events and give me an abundance of dating options? I specifically like blondes with big breasts and curvy latina women come in second.
This is what happens when you have female friends. They just recommend girls who they think are your type. This girl is a pretty pilot and I’m a pretty pilot (even though being a pilot is not really a requirement to date me lmao) Anyone else down with me to open the #TempleOfSartain 💀💀💀
Stupid ass title, I know. But I also know that most of you are here mainly because you want pussy. That's fine, really, I'm no different. The thing that gets people confused about social circle game, however, is this: it looks like a straight path to the friendzone - which is something that you're already experiencing anyways, so why bother? When you hear @Michael Sartain saying "just be normal, be calibrated and girls will want to sleep with you", you may feel skeptical. And it makes sense that you do. So let's add some nuance here: 1) As Michael states, a girl wants to sleep with you firstly because of your social status. Status trumps everything. And regardless of your opinion about Social Circle game, that's self evident. So as you provide value as a connector, content creator and/or suggester throwing value-given events (like photoshoots), you build a social network and within it your status. That's how you open the door to meet exceptionally attractive women that you would never meet because, before, you and these girls lived in completely different worlds: the low and the high-status worlds. 2) Once you get to the high-status world where they inhabit through these events, you don't act in a overtly sexual manner as in pick up, but in a masculine manner, through being physically in shape, well dressed (showcasing your body's V-shape), well groomed (but not in a metrosexual manner, because that's not masculine), with masculine body language, masculine tonality, breaking rapport as you speak and, most importantly... >>> Showing yourself as a leader in high-status situations. <<< So the key is being a masculine leader in high-status situations. And when I say "masculine leadership", I'm talking about being assertive, not aggressive in your communication. Since you're the one organizing these value-given events, you have the high-status situation and the leadership right there. And when you add the High-status situation, Leadership, and your masculinity together, you get sexual attraction from some of the women in these events, and also from some of the women in your social circle who are not there, but will be watching the IVE (irrefutable visual evidence) you'll post later on your IG.
Threw an awesome comp table event the other night and wanted to share what I did to achieve that and things that I learned from it. It was just crazy seeing the power when you get this right. I had 3 different girls that tried to pull me without any work from my end throughout the night. 🏆 Key factors that lead to the successful event: 🏆 · Connecting with the right people – From day 1 of arriving in Vegas I have really focused on networking with other MOA guys, hosts, security, bottle girls.. etc. This just makes everything easier. At the club that we went I knew 3 hosts which makes organizing things such as a comp table significantly easier. · Optimizing story when sending invites – One thing that I have found is that often when I send invites to events the girls check out my IG story. I always make it a thing when I know I am going to send a lot of invites to post stories that show crazy IVE of me with other hot girls which then makes the invitee see I am not some weird guy. · Fixing my IG – Nothing more to say here · Recruiting nights for events – The best show-up rate that I get are from girls that I meet when I am out throughout the week. Everyone that I meet that are attractive I always mention the upcoming event and ask if they would like to come. Then just send them the details the next day (Also an easy way to show status and get their IG). Making sure you are calibrated and have a good interaction with them is key. · Being a good host – Throughout the night I tried to talk with every girl and make sure they are having fun, comfortable and not being harassed by other guys. Basically just being a fun guy and boosting the vibe of the event. 🏆 Things I learned: 🏆 · Pre-selection is crazy powerful – One of the girls I brought in was super cold to me at the start, but then after seeing me be calibrated and fun with all the other girls was trying to pull me back to her place. · For events such as comp tables sending invites two days or less is enough time to let the girls know.