Step 3: Finding 6 High-Status, Value-Giving Events and Inviting Girls to Them
For those of you who have successfully completed this step, could you please share your experience in detail? How did you pull it off? What was the first event you invited girls to? How many invitations did you send out? Did you hire a VA to help with outreach? I’d also like to share a concept that I found very interesting. Take a look at the graph I provided where the vertical axis represents the medium used to deliver a message (in our case, inviting girls to a high-value event), and the horizontal axis represents the impact of that message. The medium axis goes from noisy to high-signal. The goal is to choose a high-signal medium—something rarely used and less crowded—so that the message stands out and has a higher probability of being opened. Ideally, it should feel direct and emotionally disarming. The impact axis goes from apathetic to high-impact. The objective here is to craft a message that sparks curiosity and interest rather than indifference. So the ideal position on this graph is the top-right corner: a high-signal medium combined with a high-impact message. In my case, if I want to increase the probability that girls actually receive the invitation and decide to come to the event, I need to optimize both of these variables. That’s why I’m not fully convinced that contacting them on Instagram is the best strategy. The medium is extremely noisy—beautiful girls receive hundreds of messages every day. On top of that, DMs often end up in the message requests folder and never even get opened. I also only have around 270 followers. My profile is well curated, but with such a small following the message might still be ignored, even if the invitation itself is valuable. One idea I had was to send a physical letter—an envelope with: - a printed flyer for the event, - a personal invitation message offering free entry, - and my business card with my contact details so they can reach out and confirm their spot. My only concern is how to find the mailing addresses of these girls in the first place, and whether doing so could potentially violate privacy laws.