I'm Tyler from Rochester, NY 30 years old, aeronautical engineer. I worked on helicopter design for about 7 years until my girl cheated on me, I was clinically depressed and suicidal, adapted a victim mentality which took me about 2 years to overcome. Since then I've been working on just getting back into my own skin. Recently I resigned from a position as a quality engineer because "I felt like I *deserved* more," and I had a realization about a week ago that I don't deserve anything in life. If I want something I have to put in the work to obtain it. Since then I've started really trying to refocus by working on my discipline, lacing up my running shoes, and hitting the climbing gym. While I am currently primarily focused on looking for new work now, there's no time like the present to build yourself into who you want to be. Glad to be here!