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An Uncomfortable TRUTH about "Bible Study"
Ever wonder why guys chase pussy like it's the holy grail? Here's the uncomfortable truth most men don't want to hear: there's nothing inherently special about what's between a woman's legs. For those who've had abundance, you know this. For those still putting it on a pedestal, buckle up.
THE THEORY OF 100
I call it the "Theory of 100" - and it nearly perfectly aligns with what researchers call the "orgasm gap." The premise is simple: imagine you've had 10 partners and had sex 10 times with each. How many times did you climax? For men, flip it - how many times did you NOT climax?
My sample came from an unlikely source: roller derby. As an official, I had access to roughly 2000 women (90%+ straight, the rest bisexual) and 400 straight men at after-parties and tournaments. These weren't college kids - we're talking housewives to lawyers, doctors to waitresses. Real people with real experience.
THE BRUTAL NUMBERS
Here's what I found (and what academic research confirms):
Women's Reality:
- High outliers (50 women): Came 90%+ of the time
- Low end (120 women): Never came from PIV sex without toys
- The vast majority (92%): Only came about 25% of the time
Men's Reality:
- Failed to finish: 3-8 times out of 100
- Main reasons: Too drunk, performance anxiety, or rubbed one out before the date
Academic studies back this up. The orgasm gap shows men climaxing 70-85% of the time while women hover between 46-58%. That's a 22-30 point gap that nobody talks about.
THE BREAKDOWN NOBODY WANTS TO HEAR
When I dug deeper with the women, patterns emerged:
- 3 partners they never climaxed with (faked it to end it)
- 1 partner who got them there every single time (10/10)
- 1 partner who delivered 8/10 times
- 2 partners who managed about 50% success rate
- The rest? Forgettable
Why the massive variance? The reasons were predictable:
- Lack of foreplay
- Self-consciousness (especially with hot guys)
- Attractive but terrible in bed
- New partner anxiety
- Uncomfortable locations
- Fear of getting caught (public sex)
Meanwhile, us men? We finish because:
1. We're selfish and fall asleep after
2. We'll fantasize about someone else if needed
3. We don't need emotional connection (it's nice, not necessary)
DICKMATIZATION PHENOMENON
This explains why you hear about women being "dickmatized" - traveling hours to get laid, tolerating assholes for years, knowingly or unknowingly sharing men. When a woman finds that rare guy who can consistently get her there, she'll put up with almost anything.
Think about it: if you only came 25% of the time, and suddenly found someone who delivered 100%, wouldn't you get a little obsessed?
Research shows lesbian women report the highest orgasm rates, followed by bisexual women, with straight women dead last. Why? Because women understand what works on women's bodies. They engage in longer sessions, more variety, and actually focus on what generates orgasms.
DATING IMPLICATIONS
This data destroys several dating myths:
For Men Your dick isn't special. 95%+ of us will finish regardless. What makes you valuable isn't your ability to cum - it's your ability to make HER cum. Master that and you become the 10/10 guy women will rearrange their lives for.
For Women (if there's any in here) Stop faking it. You're training men to be terrible lovers. That guy who thinks he's a sex god because his ex always "came"? You created that monster.
For Everyone The focus on PIV sex as "real sex" is why this gap exists. Studies show women who receive oral sex jump from 57% to 73% orgasm rates. Add manual stimulation and it climbs higher.
SELF-DECEPTION GAME
Here's where it gets dark. Men believe they're better lovers than they are because:
- Women fake it to avoid awkwardness
- We count our own orgasm as "successful sex"
- We assume she came if she made noise
Women participate in this deception because:
- They don't want to hurt feelings
- They've internalized that their pleasure is secondary
- They think something's wrong with them
This creates a feedback loop where nobody improves and everyone stays frustrated.
BREAKING THE CYCLE
Want to be in that top 10% of men? Simple:
- Stop treating your orgasm as the finish line
- Learn what actually works (hint: it's not jackhammering)
- Communicate without ego
- Understand that most women need 15-20 minutes and specific stimulation
The uncomfortable truth? Most of us men are terrible in bed and don't know it. We've been grading ourselves on a curve where showing up equals passing. Meanwhile, women have been suffering in silence, faking satisfaction while secretly planning trips to visit that one ex who actually knew what he was doing.
Do you think you're great in bed? If your answer is something like "I've never had any complaints" that's NOT a flex. Let me know when women will fly THEMSELVES with their own money to Reno to see you 3, 5, 10 years since the last time you laid it down.
TLDR: The "Theory of 100" proves what research confirms - massive orgasm gap exists. Men finish 95%+ regardless of skill. Women only cum 25% of the time with most partners. This is why women get "dickmatized" by the few men who can deliver. Stop chasing pussy like it's special - it's not. What's special is being the guy who actually knows how to please women. Master that and watch how the dynamics flip entirely.
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