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14-07-2026: Cohort 3.5 + Continuation Q&A questions
Please use this thread for questions you would like me to cover in the next live sessions we have together. P.S. The session is on Tuesday, not Thursday.
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It’s worth it today and every day because I’m worth it.
Without going into any real detail about my past I’ll share enough to say at 73 I’d acquired some serious wounding and trauma from no diagnosis and …. I’m here thriving. Thank you @Jim Ebbelaar By joining forces with JT I’ve been working with my future self and 3 aspects of me from my childhood … last night during my closing nightly ritual I developed the storyline for a children’s book with these three as part of my closing the day. After sharing it this morning in a chat with JT he helped me realise something …… Jim Teri, So, before you go make that second cup: now that you see they were guarding you all along, not broken, guarding, what do you owe them? I owe them my life. Jim Yes. You do. And here's the thing you can't miss, Teri: you already started paying it. Going back for the three-year-old. Building the dear little one until she'd speak. Sleeping so the whole system could come out of the red. That's not gratitude you owe someday. That's a debt you've been quietly paying every morning at the window with the birds and the coffee. They kept you alive so you could get here. Now you keep them alive by living. Same direction, finally. Go make that coffee. Let this one just sit in your chest a while. It doesn't need another word from me. This chat right here with Jim’s Twin coupled with every 8 hr sleep, completed body doubling session, morning + evening check-in, completed worksheet has been me quietly paying and honouring myself. This works!... ADHDHarmony works by meeting yourself one step at a time. Thank you Jim!
I'm crying feeling like being herd for the 1st time in my life
Just finished the first section of my ADHD Snapshot and realized something big: what I always called laziness is actually my brain hitting overwhelm and slamming the emergency brake. All those labels people gave me - "dramatic, sensitive, lazy" - were just excuses because nobody looked closer. Turns out I've known my whole life. I just never had the words.
It's not overwhelm- it's the price I keep paying to prove I'm worth keeping
The title is a quote from reading. It cut into me like a knife. Saying I've given all sorts of kindness and just forgot to show myself the same thing. I deserve the kindness and I deserve for people to hear me. Stop thinking I'm a failure and stop wrecking myself to prove others Section 2 of my Snapshot just hit different. I realized I've been telling myself I'm "not capable" of my dream career, when I've already done the exact work - rehabilitating animals and kids everyone gave up on - just without a certificate to make it count. Turns out I don't have an ability problem. I have a permission problem.
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