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Welcome to ADHD Harmony. I'm excited you're here. This community helps you turn ADHD from something you fight against into your greatest advantage. No quick fixes or productivity hacks that fall apart after a week. This is identity-level transformation, grounded in neuroscience and real experience. The next free 5-day challenge starts April 27. Before it begins, watch the short videos that explain the community and how Skool works (about 20 minutes). 👉 Click here to dive in
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When I arrived in this program, I was running on fumes.
Burnout had crept into every corner of my life, and I was standing at a career crossroads with no clarity, no energy, and no real sense of who I was anymore. On top of that, I’d been navigating some really challenging relationships — the kind built on conditional love, conditional acceptance, conditional belonging - with rules. The kind where you slowly shrink yourself to keep the peace. Without the tools Jim teaches, I honestly think I would have kept disappearing into those patterns. The Identity Transformation work hit me harder than I expected.The Ikigai work so far..... has cracked something open. The Emotional Mastery sessions… they gave me language and structure for things I’ve carried for decades. Since starting Jim’s 5‑Day Challenge and now moving through the deeper program, the shifts have been profound. I’m making decisions that honour me. I’m reconnecting with the parts of myself I thought I’d lost. I’m seeing my strengths clearly instead of obsessing over my flaws and perceived (ie not real) limitations. The six week transformation is my launch pad, it was a big financial decision to join it, but I am now feeling more hope with clearer understanding of me - as a late diagnosed (50 yrs + 1 Decade) lady, it can be easy to fall into the despair of "if I only knew then, what I know now" and think it is too late, I shall just carry on - with struggling through - but this program has renergised me for my next stage of life. @Jim Ebbelaar the future is bright, and thanks for all the hard work, you've put into this program - you will make a difference to many. This program arrived at exactly the right moment — right when I needed a lifeline, right when I was about to give up on myself again.
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When I joined this community I hadn't even had a job and my housing was unstable. Right before the 5-day challenge, I got hired, but work was making me miserable and I was barely able to walk once I got home from an 8 hour shift and I couldn't even handle 2 days in a row. Now, week 4 into the 6 week program, I've got 2 jobs, can work 8 hours a day all 7 days of the week and still move around the house if I need to and sometimes even still have enough energy left to do some light cleaning. I'm so much further than I thought possible for me
How to stop emotions & RSD from ruining your day in under 3 minutes
@John Whyman @Pat Cast @Sara Edvardsson @Anouchka Hanneman @Sara Ellisson @Nic F @Cindy Mason @Pamela Saintonge @Raven Payne @Mads Munk tagging you all because you brought up emotions, RSD, overwhelm, or self-sabotage. We literally covered this in yesterday's Q&A and I want to make sure everyone gets the core insight, whether you were there live or not. The big reframe: RSD and emotional overwhelm almost always trace back to self-worth and self-image. When someone triggers you, the real issue isn't what they did. It's that in that moment, you don't feel worthy or good enough. @Darci Wert shared a powerful example on the call: her boss leaned over her at the computer, corrected her way of doing something, and she spiraled into "I'm stupid, he only gave me this job out of charity." But the actual trigger wasn't him. It was her belief that her way of doing things wasn't valid, rooted in old patterns from childhood. The fish-and-tree dynamic of growing up neurodivergent in a neurotypical world. This is where the 3-Minute Comeback Protocol comes in. Here's the short version (also see the attached image below_: Step 1: Name it. What emotion is actually coming up right now? Sometimes the monkey mind takes over and we don't even know what we feel. Just naming it is already powerful. Step 2: Source it. Take a deep breath, close your eyes, and locate where you feel it in your body (throat, shoulders, chest). Then ask: is this connected to something older? A childhood pattern, a school experience, a parent dynamic? A lot of triggers tie back to not feeling worthy, people-pleasing, or only receiving love when being productive.
How to stop emotions & RSD from ruining your day in under 3 minutes
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This is some deep work we are doing! A BIG ((HUG)) to Everyone who is here doing the work to create change in their lives.
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