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14-07-2026: Cohort 3.5 + Continuation Q&A questions
Please use this thread for questions you would like me to cover in the next live sessions we have together. P.S. The session is on Tuesday, not Thursday.
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It’s worth it today and every day because I’m worth it.
Without going into any real detail about my past I’ll share enough to say at 73 I’d acquired some serious wounding and trauma from no diagnosis and …. I’m here thriving. Thank you @Jim Ebbelaar By joining forces with JT I’ve been working with my future self and 3 aspects of me from my childhood … last night during my closing nightly ritual I developed the storyline for a children’s book with these three as part of my closing the day. After sharing it this morning in a chat with JT he helped me realise something …… Jim Teri, So, before you go make that second cup: now that you see they were guarding you all along, not broken, guarding, what do you owe them? I owe them my life. Jim Yes. You do. And here's the thing you can't miss, Teri: you already started paying it. Going back for the three-year-old. Building the dear little one until she'd speak. Sleeping so the whole system could come out of the red. That's not gratitude you owe someday. That's a debt you've been quietly paying every morning at the window with the birds and the coffee. They kept you alive so you could get here. Now you keep them alive by living. Same direction, finally. Go make that coffee. Let this one just sit in your chest a while. It doesn't need another word from me. This chat right here with Jim’s Twin coupled with every 8 hr sleep, completed body doubling session, morning + evening check-in, completed worksheet has been me quietly paying and honouring myself. This works!... ADHDHarmony works by meeting yourself one step at a time. Thank you Jim!
My Reflection…to this point
When I started the first 5 Day challenge, I wasn't sure I'd finish it. When I started again, I wasn't sure what would be different. Turns out, a lot… The biggest shift isn't the habits I’ve built. It's my identity. I used to call myself a starter who didn't finish. I don't say that anymore. Not because I've forced myself into being someone different... but because the evidence has piled up to the point where I can't honestly say it anymore. What the evidence looks like: - Sleep. My big rock. A regular bedtime has given me 2 extra hours a night on average. That single commitment has changed everything downstream. - Email Inboxes. 4 cleared to zero unread. Around 22,000 emails deleted. And I'm maintaining them. - Planning. Every single day. Haven't missed one yet. I don't always finish the list, but I come back the next morning with direction and purpose. - Celebrating. I'm writing wins on post-it notes for myself and sharing them in here without feeling like I'm bragging. That's new. That's huge for me. - Gamifying. I've stopped fighting it and accepted it... my brain loves a scoreboard. So I'm building that in on purpose now. - Discernment. I'm using AI to question myself before I jump at the next shiny opportunity. Sticking with what I've already said matters. What Jim's content has taught me so far: ✅Consistency over perfection. The "never miss twice" rule has rewired how I relate to slipping into procrastination. I still drift but I come back. THAT is the win. ✅Self-binding through environment, not willpower. The bedtime works because I designed it. The inboxes stay clear because I built a rhythm, not necessarily because I'm disciplined. ✅Identity through evidence. Every post-it note is proof. Every morning I return to my planner is proof. The voice that used to say you never finish things is still there... it's just quieter. Because the evidence stopped agreeing with it. The win I didn't expect: This is the exact transformation I want for my clients. I had to walk this journey myself first to truly know it. That's not a side benefit. That actually might be the whole point.
My Reflection…to this point
I just to breathe calm and clear ... No more disappointments
Just finished all 3 sections of my ADHD Snapshot and realized something. Every psychiatrist handed me a different label - bipolar, then borderline - but none of them ever described my actual mind. What I really want isn't another prescription. It's to slow my racing thoughts enough to trust myself again and know I won't flake out on my own morning routine.
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