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14-07-2026: Cohort 3.5 + Continuation Q&A questions
Please use this thread for questions you would like me to cover in the next live sessions we have together. P.S. The session is on Tuesday, not Thursday.
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It’s worth it today and every day because I’m worth it.
Without going into any real detail about my past I’ll share enough to say at 73 I’d acquired some serious wounding and trauma from no diagnosis and …. I’m here thriving. Thank you @Jim Ebbelaar By joining forces with JT I’ve been working with my future self and 3 aspects of me from my childhood … last night during my closing nightly ritual I developed the storyline for a children’s book with these three as part of my closing the day. After sharing it this morning in a chat with JT he helped me realise something …… Jim Teri, So, before you go make that second cup: now that you see they were guarding you all along, not broken, guarding, what do you owe them? I owe them my life. Jim Yes. You do. And here's the thing you can't miss, Teri: you already started paying it. Going back for the three-year-old. Building the dear little one until she'd speak. Sleeping so the whole system could come out of the red. That's not gratitude you owe someday. That's a debt you've been quietly paying every morning at the window with the birds and the coffee. They kept you alive so you could get here. Now you keep them alive by living. Same direction, finally. Go make that coffee. Let this one just sit in your chest a while. It doesn't need another word from me. This chat right here with Jim’s Twin coupled with every 8 hr sleep, completed body doubling session, morning + evening check-in, completed worksheet has been me quietly paying and honouring myself. This works!... ADHDHarmony works by meeting yourself one step at a time. Thank you Jim!
My Intentions for today...
📅 Daily Check-in - July 10, 2026 💭 Reflection: "Following our live Q&A this morning, I thought I would do a check in at the beginning of the day to set my intention and then reflect on it at the end of the day. Today is Matariki and as such, it's a stat holiday. I'm going to use my time to bond with my youngest son (not that we don't have a bond because we do - a strong one) and we're going to set up a 200L fish tank (in theory!). It will need to stand for a few days before we introduce our fish into it. I also want to use snail rid on the plants in a separate container before introducing them to the tank. Alongside that, I have my nephew coming to look at the chook house and figure out how to weather proof it better - it's a large outdoor area but the cold southerly winds rip through it and if it's raining - the wind takes it through the whole area leaving their food drenched. And then very late tonight, we will travel down to Auckland Airport (approx 3 hours) to pick up my injured son who arrives at 9:50pm. So we won't get home again until the early hours of the morning but it will be wonderful to have us all back together again. So those are the intentions for today and I will reflect when I get home on the successes for the day. I'm determined to have a day where I won't let it be sabotaged by others." 📊 Wellbeing Scores: 😊 Happiness: 7/10 ⚡ Energy: 7/10 🎯 Focus: 7/10 😌 Calmness: 7/10 🌙 Sleep Quality: 6/10 🔥 Motivation: 7/10 ⭐ Average: 6.8/10 ✅ Activities from yesterday: 💧 Stayed Hydrated 🥗 Healthy Eating 🍺 No Alcohol ☕ No Late Caffeine 🥩 Hit Protein Goal ✨ Positive Mindset 🧠 Learning 🎸 Skill Practice
The fish tank saga goes on.....
Daily Check-in - 2026-07-12 Activities 🛏️ Good Sleep, 🥗 Healthy Eating, 🍺 No Alcohol, ☕ No Late Caffeine, 🥩 Hit Protein Goal, 🥦 Ate Vegetables, 🍳 Home Cooked Meal, ✨ Positive Mindset, 🌅 Focused Morning Scores 😊 Happiness: 7/10 ⚡ Energy: 7/10 🎯 Focus: 7/10 😌 Calmness: 7/10 🌙 Sleep Quality: 8/10 🔥 Motivation: 7/10 Reflection Ok - I promised an update. I didn't do a check in yesterday - it was fraught with disasters. It seemed that Murphy hadn't moved out afterall. So after flooding the lounge (the water pump for the fish tank sprang leaks everywhere), I had a massive clean up job. I replaced 3 o-rings and still the damn water pump leaked. I took it into the kitchen and tried to work it out. Instead I flooded the kitchen! Arrrggghhh!! After getting a copy of the schematics for the pump, I pulled it apart while on the phone to my brother (he's a mechanic). So, after some sound advise (don't get water inside the motor otherwise it'll short and that'll be the end of the pump), I continued to pull it apart. I couldn't see anything else wrong so text my brother to say that it looks like I'm coming to his place (he did offer!) now I've wrecked it. 2 hours at his place, in the dark and cold (it's winter), we finally got it going without leaks. We closed off the pipes and I transported it with the water still inside it, ready to attach to the fish tank. This morning I replaced the hoses from the pump to the tank (one hose was too short), and switched it on.......AND it leaked!!! Oh far out - how much more of this do I have to tolerate? With the help of my eldest son (his arms were a lot longer than mine), we spent quite an age and finally have it going without leaks. There are another 4 o-rings I discovered with my brother - they're specialised o-rings so I can't just rock on up to a DIY store to get replacements. He gave me the name of a supplier that they sometimes use at work. Anyway, a couple of days of cycling, hopefully the water will clear and then I have to pull the pump apart to put the filtration wool in......ahhhh......I hope this doesn't spell disaster again! I did extremely well given the disasters that kept happening and I put that down to having nearly 9.5h of sleep last night (that and my son's long arms!). Happy Sunday everyone!!
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