Are there more people that: finished the 5day challenge and have access to the blueprint, and would like to work togetheron that and chat a bit about it? Let me know!

A lot of people's posts mention people-pleasing and wondering why they are so kind and generous to everyone but themselves. If you yourself have been wondering, this might help. "People-pleasing often starts in childhood as a survival mechanism or learned behavior, where a child associates compliance, agreeableness, and meeting others' needs with emotional safety, love, or reduced conflict. It is a coping strategy to manage unstable, critical, or conditional environments. Here is how people-pleasing first starts and develops: - Conditional Love and Approval: Children may learn that affection and praise are only given when they are "good," helpful, or compliant, leading them to prioritize others' needs to feel worthy. - Trauma Response ("Fawning"): As a response to abuse, neglect, or high-conflict households, a child may use "fawning"—an automatic, trauma-induced strategy of merging with the needs of others to avoid further pain or danger. - Fear of Rejection/Abandonment: To avoid abandonment or losing relationships, children learn that saying "no" or creating conflict is unsafe, forcing them to become hyper-aware of others' moods. - Parent-Pleasing Behaviors: Children may take on adult responsibilities or manage their parents' emotions (parentification), leading to the belief that they are responsible for others' happiness. - Environmental Conditioning: Growing up with unpredictable, volatile, or emotionally unavailable caregivers forces children to walk on eggshells and adopt a "low-maintenance" persona to maintain stability. Over time, this protective strategy becomes an automatic habit where a person ignores their own needs to ensure they remain safe, loved, and approved of."