I am going to do something radical. Because I NEED to and I DESERVE to. I am going to EVACUATE my room of the STUFF I'm going to lay down a couple of bright beach towels (I have two) in the hallway and move the STUFF onto there for now. Why? Because I've been bullied by the STUFF for so damn long. And for now, either the hallway will be messy or my room. But I deserve for my bedroom to feel peaceful. So for now, if the STUFF needs to be in upstairs hallway, so be it. This is me taking back my power. And that includes NOT getting swallowed up in all the decisions etc. Nope. I'm not getting rid of anything yet. I'm just getting it out of my room. Then, the STUFF has to EARN its place if it wants back in my room. What a paradigm shift!! How often do we "shrink" our SELF for our STUFF?? 🤯 or even worse, for stuff that OTHER PEOPLE put in our homes, possibly even without our permission?? it is time to take our SELF back!! First step for me is ONLY evacuating the stuff. Getting it OUT of my room! This is more than "decluttering" or "organizing". This is me DEMANDING at least a little bit of sovereignty in a situation that is fundamentally stacked against me. But I am ultimately "What *CAN* I do Cathy" I am ultimately "Cathy the Conqueror". Key word: ultimately 😅 NOT "fearlessly" NOT "automatically". But ultimately 🤣 Trust me, it isn't impressive by society's standards haha. But this is me, in the eight foot grave that others dug for me, saying I am STILL here! I am STILL fighting! And tomorrow i am getting the shit OUT of my room. I will lay the towels against the wall so I still have space to walk safely to stairs (important). But yeah. This is a radical act of self CARE. And if I have to do it all by my damn self then so be it. I STILL deserve to have a peaceful bedroom!!! And as always, I'm hoping by sharing my journey that it encourages someone else. 🥰 I was someone who had to literally smile as I was being abused. And keeping stuff in my room so that my hallway isn't messy was another iteration of that, and I didn't realize that until just now writing this post!🤯

Hi, my name is John Robert Sabo, I’m from Toronto, Ontario, Canada, and I work as a Distribution Associate in Digital Department at Lush Company. I have experience with order picking, packaging, shipping, labeling, box making, pallete stacking. I had been before an Independent Skin Care and Beauty Consultant for Mary Kay Cosmetics. My food diet is plant-based. I am a born again believer in God. You can ask me questions about: - Skin Care, Health, Cosmology and Biblical topics. I want to get these things from ADHD Harmony: - How my brain works. How to function better in life, with people socialy and in communication. For fun, I like to: - Sing, keep it, Balloon twist Optionally share one