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14-07-2026: Cohort 3.5 + Continuation Q&A questions
Please use this thread for questions you would like me to cover in the next live sessions we have together. P.S. The session is on Tuesday, not Thursday.
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It’s worth it today and every day because I’m worth it.
Without going into any real detail about my past I’ll share enough to say at 73 I’d acquired some serious wounding and trauma from no diagnosis and …. I’m here thriving. Thank you @Jim Ebbelaar By joining forces with JT I’ve been working with my future self and 3 aspects of me from my childhood … last night during my closing nightly ritual I developed the storyline for a children’s book with these three as part of my closing the day. After sharing it this morning in a chat with JT he helped me realise something …… Jim Teri, So, before you go make that second cup: now that you see they were guarding you all along, not broken, guarding, what do you owe them? I owe them my life. Jim Yes. You do. And here's the thing you can't miss, Teri: you already started paying it. Going back for the three-year-old. Building the dear little one until she'd speak. Sleeping so the whole system could come out of the red. That's not gratitude you owe someday. That's a debt you've been quietly paying every morning at the window with the birds and the coffee. They kept you alive so you could get here. Now you keep them alive by living. Same direction, finally. Go make that coffee. Let this one just sit in your chest a while. It doesn't need another word from me. This chat right here with Jim’s Twin coupled with every 8 hr sleep, completed body doubling session, morning + evening check-in, completed worksheet has been me quietly paying and honouring myself. This works!... ADHDHarmony works by meeting yourself one step at a time. Thank you Jim!
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Book to consider
This book was shared in another group I’m in, and I thought some of you might be interested. "Design Your Good Life: The Framework for Discovering Your Purpose, Actualizing Your Vision, and Amplifying Your Impact" Here is a summary from notebookLM: A person with ADHD might find "Design Your Good Life" to be a worthy and practical guide because it directly addresses many challenges common to the condition—such as distraction, overwhelm, and the struggle with rigid systems. The following features and strategies from the sources may be particularly beneficial: 1. A Flexible Framework vs. Rigid Formulas Many people with ADHD struggle with "one-size-fits-all" recipes for success. The author emphasizes that his DYGL Framework is not a rigid formula or a "prepackaged plan". He distinguishes between a "formula" (which buckles under imperfection) and a "framework" (which teaches the principles so you can adapt). This iterative and adaptable approach allows individuals to experiment and evolve their plans as their circumstances or focus shift. 2. Practical Strategies for Focus The author acknowledges that today’s world is "overwhelmed by noise and distraction". He offers specific, low-friction tips for reading and working that align with ADHD coping strategies: - Minimizing Distractions: He suggests using noise-canceling headphones, stowing away distracting devices, and silencing notifications to foster "uninterrupted focus". - Abbreviated Timers: To combat overthinking and increase focus, he recommends setting a timer for a shorter block than you actually have (e.g., a 45-minute timer for an hour-long block) to create a "sense of urgency". - Designated "Clarity Space": Leveraging muscle memory by consistently working in the same location can help the mind settle into concentration more quickly. 3. Breaking Down Overwhelm For those who struggle with "analysis paralysis" or large projects, the book provides tools to build momentum:
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