@John Lander you can, but you ALWAYS have to think about the value they're getting. "The chance to be in my presence" only starts to come into play at the bottom of the funnel

@Jordan Woods make a copy of this. It has dropdowns for all the categories I care about and the Instagram column is also set to highlight in green any duplicate names. https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/15YgL-wTAsd4zfS5pEFp-HQr73YB5TsXMiXaBnUT4xvA/edit?usp=sharing

@John Lander I think it could be either. If it were me I would only make it top-of-funnel if it were a VIP box, area, or experience. Otherwise it's more of a "friend" outing so I would do lower-mid or bottom of funnel.

@Garrett Barry yes that's what I do

I use the spreadsheet. I added a column with a checkbox, and every time I open a thread I check it off. If I'm in a club or at a party opening a thread, I screenshot it and check it off on my list later that night or the next morning. If my VA is sending out mass invites, I scroll through my DMs looking for that rare opened thread that didn't start a conversation. Remember, "Seen" is an opened thread. I've trained my VA to look for open threads if there's a huge stack of messages to sift through, but it's often quicker for me to just do it myself. It's not easy, which is annoying because worthwhile things REALLY should be easy. In all seriousness, though, that list of open threads is MAGIC.

@Zachery Moy on Bumble Dating or on Bumble BFF?

@Zachery Moy most MOA guys think it's a waste of time — that the girls aren't hot enough, it's not scalable, and if a hot girl is on there, there's someting "wrong" with her. I don't necessarily agree — I and some others use it for dates, in parallel with my more MOA-focused activities. Yes, on average you won't find the hottest of the hot girls on there, but you WILL find some hot ones. But it IS time-consuming, and MOA is all about time leverage. There are girls on Tinder and Bumble who include their IGs on their profiles — often as a funnel to their OF — and whether I match with them or not, if I can confirm that they are local I WILL collect their IG for my list. Also, if I go on a first date with a girl and it doesn't go beyond the first date (i.e. she only wants a one-night stand, or there's just no sexual chemistry or I just don't close her), I will also add her to my list. She might not want a second date, but she might still say yes to a value-giving event like a photoshoot or theme party.

It's also important to fuck her good and fuck her often. NEVER underestimate the power of being the good dick in her life. Like I mentioned above, my cheater girlfriend told me she almost cheated on me because she had a high sex drive, and while she loved sex with me, I wasn't doing it often enough. She wanted it every night. A more loyal woman will accept longer spells between sexual encounters, but she still won't wait forever. If you're not sure if you're good in bed, that HAS to be fixed if you don't want to be cheated on. Many guys can't possibly conceptualize this, but when you're THAT MAN in her life, fucking her will eventually start to feel like work. It's a good problem to have, but it's still work. If you're wise, you will fuck her even when you don't feel like it, just to keep her on the reservation. Listen to Andrew Tate talk about sex sometime. He's had so much sex that it's practically like drinking water or pissing for him — just exercising a biological impulse. When he was running four cam girls at a time, he mainly fucked them to maintain their loyalty and keep them on the reservation working for him. Sometimes he had to fuck them all in one day and was exhausted and frustrated by the whole process ... but he did it because he didn't want them straying.

@Deleted "It's YOUR fault I cheated on you! You made me do it. So basically, YOU cheated on you!"