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This Stops Being About Clothes
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This Stops Being About Clothes
Golf date with my wife this morning
Taking the day off from visiting contractors and distributors to go golfing with my wife. Have not played in a while so this should be interesting. Leaving about 10am. A little work before we leave on the computer. - red and white golf shirt - Blue Golf belt - Navy tech slim fit chinos - White tennis shoes for travel to course - Grey golf shoes not shown - Apple Watch today.
Golf date with my wife this morning
Does anyone else struggle with upgrading their fashion style?
I am 27, almost 28 and I haven’t changed my fashion too much from middle/high school. T-shirts and shorts are my everyday outfit. (Hey, at least I “upgraded” from oversized basketball shorts to knee-length cotton shorts) I have elevated pieces - i.e. wool trousers, penny loafers, overshirts, selvedge denim jeans I just feel like it’s ”weird” for me to dress better. I know this feeling goes away and is normal for a lot of people, but it’s so overwhelmingly strong for me that if I have a “nicer” outfit than usual on, I just go back inside the house to change back into what feels normal. I also have no idea how to style pieces together, and I’m sort of a perfectionist in the worst way possible. If I don’t think an outfit perfectly meshes together, I just give up and resort to my usual, which is undoubtedly even worse. So it doesn’t even make sense most of the time. I have a hard time sticking to one fashion style too. I don’t know if this is a bad thing, but I really do like multiple different styles. Heritage/workwear, minimalism, ivy/preppy, and classic sartorial really resonate with me, and I feel like I have a good-enough body type to pull most things off, I just don’t know how to. OF COURSE I’m not going to combine multiple/all styles into one outfit, I was thinking more of a day-by-day rotation between styles and also depending on the weather. Basically all I’m saying is that I seriously let perfect be the enemy of good. I wonder how other people got out of this.
Saturday in the sun!
Heading out today with my wife for some errands. It’s sunny going to get up to 60 degrees. Seems like a great day to not have a coat today!! Have a great Saturday my friends!!
Saturday in the sun!
Thanks Brothers!
Thank you all for the kind birthday wishes—truly appreciated. I should’ve mentioned I share the day with my little buckaroo, Frankie, who just turned 10… so I’m in good company and slightly outnumbered. My cowgirl and I spent the evening doing a respectable (and occasionally questionable) Texas two-step at our local dance hall. Somewhere between the turns and the music, I managed to break in a new pair of saddle tan caiman belly boots—a generous gift from her, and I’d say she knows exactly what she’s doing. Figured the occasion called for something with a bit of presence, so Curly’s “Infinity” got the nod… seemed only right for a night out. Grateful for another year. Cheers, brothers.
Thanks Brothers!
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