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As many of y'all know, I battled a shoulder rotator cuff tear the better part of the last year which I successfully managed to recover from after surgery and PT. This evening, I received news in the form of the radiologist review that I have a lateral meniscus tear in the front, back, and sides as well as a torn ACL and a meniscus tear. I messaged my Physical Therapist who I’ve become friends with over the rehab of my shoulder and her response was “Curious if they’ll wanna do a repair to opt for a knee replacement?” Gentlemen, I’m at a loss right now. I know that surgery is likely, but I have to admit that for one of the few times in my life, I’m scared. I’m not looking for sympathy or playing the “woe is me” card, I needed to get this out because I’ve kinda just shut down emotionally this evening to everyone, plus I’m currently on vacation and the life has been sucked out of me. Thank you for letting me get this off my chest.

For the first time ever me and my father are taking a father and son only road trip to visit his family in Nebraska. My family and I have made this journey many times over the summer. However, this is the first time it will just be me and my dad. growing up it hasn't always been the best relationship between me and my father. But wondering what your guys thoughts on what kind of questions, I should be asking about him as he is getting older and wanting to value this time more

Good morning gentlemen, Most of you know that at the beginning of the year I started my de digitizing process and going more towards the basics and analytics of life. One of my biggest and most pleasurable experiences has been when I started going back to writing with pens and notebooks. The purchase of a nice notebook, journal, and a fountain pen has totally changed everything. A survey of professionals have shown that 70 percent associated handwritten notes with higher confidence and trustworthiness. Writing by hand slows you down; it signals that you are engaged not rushing through the interaction. People who carry a proper pen seem to interrupt less, they listen, jot, and process, this signals habit and reshapes how others experience you. A good pen does not need to be expensive; just feel right in your hand, and consistent in your daily routine. Gentlemen, carrying a pen is not rejecting technology, it is about showing you can step outside of it when it matters.

First airing of my new Brooks Brothers sports jacket for summer. Unlined. 38% Cotton; 33% Linen; 28% wool. Altered to fit by my tailor, Juan Cuello at alterations.com, in Midtown Manhattan. Juan has been doing all my alterations for several years and I appreciate his good eye and steady hand. Photo taken at Lincoln Center during intermission of this weekend's matinee for Coppelia, danced by the New York City Ballet. Lavendar shirt and wool pants from Brooks Brothers; shoes from Crockett & Jones. Coffee cup from the theater snack bar.