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Introduce Yourself (ALL Intros HERE Please!)
OK, so by introducing yourself you are guaranteed to get to level 2 - it's really that easy and I LOVE learning more about the cool people in this group. Feel free to share where you're from, why you're here, what you do for a living, and what you like about style. Are you a watch guy, suit guy, fragrance guy, or maybe just getting started? Have fun here!
Introduce Yourself  (ALL Intros HERE Please!)
Slashed Straight Razor
Roll call how many of you gents use a straight razor to shave? I've been shaving with a straight razor for about 6 months and normally am fine, but I got rashed this time after using a fresh razor blade.
Slashed Straight Razor
Wednesday Vibes
Cremo Vintage Suede fragrance and JFR Lunatic Maduro Cigar 5.5 x 80 el grande
Wednesday Vibes
The “One Piece Rule”
I’ve been experimenting with a simple style rule: build an outfit around one standout piece. Could be a jacket with great texture, a shirt with a sharp fit, or even shoes that grab attention. Everything else stays clean and supportive. It’s been a game‑changer for me—keeps outfits balanced but still interesting. What’s your “one piece” that you build around most often?
Leading by example
Good morning gentlemen, We have had discussions on reaching out to help and lead others to becoming gentlemen. I know many of us have that mindset that “how can I lead when I am not there yet?” But what better example than for others to see your growth first hand? Sure you’re going to make mistakes but for someone to not only see you make that mistake but to take ownership and correct it, is more of an example than anyone can imagine. Letting a person see you as human, foul able, and take ownership then see you correct it, is the mark a leader and a gentleman. Another aspect of leading by example that we all as men and humans fall short of is listening completely. We all think that we do; reality, when you look back at previous conversations that you had you will find that at some point during that person talking you stopped listing and started thinking, formulating your response or your story, or both. When take the time and fully engage in what the other person is saying, we need to give our full attention to them put away our phones, face them directly, make eye contact, and give undivided attention. Also be honest and share your experiences, your success and your failures, this lets them know that you are not perfect, you understand their plight, and you can relate to their struggles and challenges. Don’t be afraid to say you do not know, many of times people will ask me something and I am the first to say I do not know, but I will make every effort to get the answer to their questions. Here are some key points that might help you when giving pointers to someone starting out. 1. Learn to control your emotions 2. Stand your ground, even when you stand alone. 3. Build a mindset so strong, no insult can shake it. 4. Walk away from people who drain your energy. 5. Never beg for attention, you’re undeniable 6. Protect your peace like it’s your last asset. 7. Speak only when your words hold weight. 8. Work like you’re broke, even when you’re rich. Gentlemen, we can make a difference in the lives of people around us and encourage and inspire young men to become gentlemen.
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