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Something to Aim At
A week or so ago, there was a discussion about what not to throw into a urinal. My suggestion was simple: instead of posting a list of prohibited items, give us something to aim at. Human nature tends to handle the rest. Fast forward to last week. I landed in Cancún, cleared customs, headed to the airport restroom, and was greeted by what appears to be Mexico’s solution—a miniature soccer goal complete with a ball hanging in the middle of the urinal. Whether it’s leftover World Cup fever or simply a brilliant bit of restroom engineering, I have no idea. I didn’t even notice if there was a sign above it, because by then my attention had already been… properly directed. Sometimes the best way to change behavior isn’t another warning sign—it’s giving people a game they can’t resist playing. I have to admit, this may be the most effective piece of “behavioral economics” I’ve ever seen in a men’s room. ⚽🚹
Something to Aim At
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@John Saville Yes!
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@Antonio Cent Thank you!
Afternoon Coffee Meeting
I'm meeting a friend for coffee to catch up, but even though it's 96 degrees in Southwestern Georgia today, why not be smartly casually dressed? ☀️😉
Afternoon Coffee Meeting
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There you go! Enjoy the day!
Inspire by Function
We hear about Function, Fit, and Fabric. What about that "Function" part? Are you in an office aimed at the casual end of business casual, for example? Well, that is where I am. Today, my cube neighbor started a conversation about how my consistent nice outfits moved him to up his game. He kept seeing it every day and it got to him that he is lagging behind. I wasn't too far ahead of him. I was within range of the function of the outfit in the environment. If my outfit were too far above, it could be written off as not worth aiming for. He is now alerted, activated, inspired. What a great time. Not outshining, but attracting. I feel like I have a fashion buddy now.
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That’s one of the best compliments a well-dressed man can receive. Style has its greatest impact when it’s approachable—it quietly raises the standard and inspires others to elevate their own game. Keep leading by example; you’ve proven that consistency and good taste can influence people far more effectively than trying to outdress everyone in the room.
Level Headed
Do you look down when you walk? Head tilts to one side? Do you prefer a straight, forward look? If you wear glasses, it is easy to be aware of the glasses frame and its relationship to level. I use mine as a reference to check if my head is down and track my elevation to level. If my eyes want to look down or up or sideways, they can. But if I am seen from far down the hallway, I want a clean symmetric even look, and this is one thing I do.
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Chin up, shoulders back, chest out and move with a sense of purpose.
Weekly RMRS Member Shoutouts 👔
Gentlemen, here are a few standout posts from the RMRS community this week. 👏 Big shoutout to @Jeffrey Plotka for "Tuesday's Intentional Thoughts - Smelling the Roses" — a thoughtful reflection on staying positive through the dog days of summer. Jeffrey opened up about his personal journey and invited the community to share how they keep their mindset sharp when the heat (or cold) tries to drag them down. A great conversation starter that resonated deeply. Post: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/tuesdays-intentional-thoughts-smelling-the-roses 👏 Shoutout to @Chad Smith for "OOTD - Monday 13 July" — a detailed walkthrough of his day from the weekly Gentleman's call to a grocery run, complete with outfit context. Chad's OOTD posts consistently draw strong engagement because he shares the real-life narrative behind the clothes, not just the fit. Post: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/ootd-monday-13-july 👏 Shoutout to @William Feldtmose for "OOTD July 15th" — another sharp contribution to the outfit-of-the-day tradition. William continues to be one of the most consistent and supportive voices in the community, showing up with style and encouraging others to do the same. Post: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/ootd-july-15th-2 👏 Shoutout to @Kav for "Thank you for the likes and well wishes" — a genuine moment of gratitude that sparked a wave of community support. It's these authentic human moments that remind us this is more than a style group; it's a brotherhood. Post: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/thank-you-for-the-likes-and-well-wishes Keep showing up, sharing your fits, and lifting each other up — that's what makes this community special.
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Always a pleasure to read the "highlights".
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Darren Poesel
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30-year USMC career. Currently, Department of the Army Civilian. Real Estate Investor, and Lifelong learner.

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