Lately, I’ve been under a lot of pressure from different areas of life. There are financial responsibilities that require strict saving, careful planning, and zero room for mistakes. On top of that, February and March are packed with commitments and holidays that need both time and money. While trying to take care of everyone’s needs and keep things stable, I’ve noticed a pattern: I usually put myself last. I postpone buying things I genuinely want—like new clothes or workout equipment—and tell myself “later” is more responsible. Most of the time, I’m okay with that decision. That said, I do make sure to protect my mental space. I spend time with people who matter to me, and I always keep at least one full off-day—even on busy weeks. No work, no pressure, no overthinking. Just movies, rest, and enjoyment. Still, I feel like something is missing. I’m not someone whose love language is gifts, but when you’ve been wanting something for a long time—especially under financial stress—getting it can feel deeply meaningful. Almost like proof that you’re allowed to take care of yourself the same way you take care of others. So I’m curious to hear your perspectives, gents: - How do you handle situations like this? - How do you balance responsibility with self-care—especially when money is tight—without guilt or over-restriction? Looking forward to your thoughts.

Gents - this challenge was a blast! We had so many transformation and turning-point stories shared, and every single one was inspiring in its own way. Seeing you guys show up, reflect, and take action is exactly what this community is about. Now… for the winner 🥁🥁🥁 🏆 WINNER: @Sean Kavanaugh Sean’s turning point started with years of feeling limited by his size — wearing looser clothes to hide, tailoring only for length, and cycling through “progress… then back to old habits.” Then life changed the trajectory. He stepped into a new chapter, started carrying himself differently, and eventually hit the real wake-up call: About 18 months ago, he woke up with his knees hurting and decided, “Enough is enough.” He committed to keto and consistent workouts — and that kickstarted not just weight loss, but a complete style evolution. What changed for Sean: - He’s down 75 pounds, with another 15–20 to go - Fit became the priority — not “whatever works,” but “what actually looks sharp” - He rebuilt his wardrobe intelligently (thrift + resale + tailoring) as his body changed - He leveled up so much that in December he bought an off-the-rack suit that only needed a hem — not a full reconstruction And the best part? He didn’t keep it to himself. He posts consistently, tracks his progress, and credits the community for helping him feel more confident in who he is — and where he’s going. @Sean Kavanaugh — we're proud of you! Everyone else: keep those stories coming in the community feed. This is how we build momentum — one decision, one upgrade, one win at a time!

Gents - quick heads-up. This one’s going to be a blast. 🔥 On January 31st at 10:00 AM CST, we’ve got Hamed Arefian (Co-Founder of MaxAroma) joining us LIVE. Come hang out, ask your questions, and get some behind-the-scenes insight! ✅ Click here to join the call on Jan 31st at 10AM CST: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/calendar?eid=b7a9560f749a46ee9952e2f9fa6c88a2 Now drop it in the comments: what’s your signature scent right now? 👇