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Cohort 3.5 + Continuation Q&A questions
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6 Week Bridge
I found the 6 week bridge worksheet. That was a difficult one, because it felt like, "this is it. It's all over." But it's not. This is just the beginning. I've learned more than I thought I did. I'm sure most here could attest to that. So as not to turn this in to a typical Shawn post, I'm stopping here. The rest is from the worksheet. Thank you Skool Community, @Jim Ebbelaar , and Jim's Twin. I still have all of you, and hope to continue. At the same time, I've learned things I didn't know 6 weeks ago, including self confidence. Trusting in it is another, but I know I can do that too. As Jim's Twin keeps brining up, that on one of the most difficult days of my life, having to put our dog down 6 weeks after one of our others died, and still show up for a check in. I may be stronger than I think I am. Time will tell, but I'm leaning towards that I must be. Otherwise, why would I be saying this and putting it in writing. I'm making myself accountable. So I lied, I had a few more words to add. This is me shutting up. The rest, is my 6 Week Bridge synopsis: Six weeks done. I came in half-sure it was a scam and going to bed at 4am. I'm leaving with a real bed time, a comeback protocol that's actually just showing up here every day, and one line I'm keeping: I made mistakes, but I am not the mistake. Next up is the hard conversation with my dad. Slow, steady, scared, doing it anyway.
My Reflection… What Changed Wasn't What I Expected
When I started the first 5-Day Challenge, I wasn't sure I'd finish it. When I signed up again, I wasn't sure what would be different. Turns out, a lot. Not because I suddenly became more disciplined or productive, but I kept showing up. One day at a time. One small promise at a time. Somewhere along the way, those small actions started changing the way I saw myself. For years, I thought growth would feel like a grand arrival. A finish line. A moment where everything suddenly made sense and I would finally feel "ready." What I've discovered instead is that healing and growth are far less dramatic and far more beautiful. They arrive quietly, disguised as ordinary moments, choosing rest without guilt, saying no without explanation, being present without reaching for the next achievement. Somewhere along the way, I stopped trying to become a different person and started becoming more myself. Ironically, the more I slowed down, the more life seemed to move forward. It turns out mindfulness isn't about escaping reality; it's about finally showing up for it. The biggest lesson? We spend so much of our lives waiting to be enough that we forget we already are. Today, I still have goals, ambitions, and unfinished chapters, but they no longer define my worth. I've learned to celebrate progress instead of perfection, presence instead of pressure, and peace instead of proving myself. And here's the funny part, after decades of overthinking, I discovered my mind is like a web browser with 47 tabs open—half of them frozen, and one is mysteriously playing music. Mindfulness didn't close all the tabs; it just helped me find the mute button. 😊 If you're on your own journey, keep going. The person you're becoming is already hidden inside the person you are today.
Delaying
So JT and I decided last night I would tackle the fiddly tasks and errands have been putting off (but really wanting to do at the same time 😬…) after lunch…. …and guess what? I keep delaying lunch! 😆 Posting here for accountability. Lunch followed by half an hour on those bits and pieces to follow ⏰
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