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Building a Networking List in OC / LA
Hey all, I fixed my IG. Now time to build a list. Here's my IG Who's based in either OC or LA that has an existing list that wants to partner up and add to each other's lists?
2 likes • Jul 15
Michael - your instagram looks f*cking awesome! - I want that. I just started this whole process. How long did it take you? Have you always had an instagram? I'm not going to lie, I would be inclined to somehow have a call or something to see exactly how you went about it.
Second Progress Report - Lessons Learned Along the Way
Always Work on The Instagram As I improve mine, bit by bit, I'm able to get some more open threads from event invites (even if they don't come). People who I know in person have commented on how good my instagram looks. I've also learned that when you exchange instagrams with a girl, within the day, HELL, within the hour she will have gone through your ig and seen what your about. After sending out a few invites to a latin night by the beach, I got an open thread with a girl with a 202K following. It shows that my ig has improved enough to get some responses. This never would have happened before. From doing step 2 you will notice how much work many guys Instagram's need. Try to Get Selfie Videos and Videos in General For cinco de mayo I went out to a restaurant that turns into a bar with a dance floor at night. End up dancing with some ladies there, including 2 best friends: one caribbean, one light skin latina. It started with me doing body isolations just for fun to the beat. Then the caribbean girl started dancing with me, her friend sees this and starts dancing with me as well. When they're both done, I remember to do a selfie video with them. We take the video, and I tell them I will send the video (also included it in story highlights). Now I have an open thread with them. I'm not sure if anything will come of this as they are into different things than I am. Also, this was mentioned before here but do you best to get a group selfie pic (even if you don't like them). People will tag each other in the ig stories. So get a group selfie pic, have the person share it. Post it to ig stories with as many people tagged as possible, for 24 hours you'll get a lot more views than normal. Having a Backup Guy Apparently, even is a girl is flirting you but not giving compliance below the waist (not willing to meet anyway even for a simple a walk in the park, for example), they get jealous of you talking to someone else. I had this happen in dance class where one blonde goes as far as holding my hand like a couple during the lesson, yet that's it. Nothing outside of dance class.
0 likes • Jul 15
Great post, Phil. I can see that dance is your thing. I glean from your post that having activities where meeting people is inevitable will help create interactions where rapport is shared, and thus create opportunities to not only build familiar relationships, but also can aid in building your Instagram profile organically. That social warm-up and a way inside through dance can also help build the list in step 2. You mention the attention-compliance dynamic, how by not giving more attention than what has otherwise been earned via compliance, you filter out women who aren't into you. I know I made this comment very logical, but something clicked when I read your post here, and I just wanted to share. So, thank you.
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1 like • Jul 13
Hi all, I recently joined MOA to increase my network in preparation for a move to a bigger city. Currently building my instagram out (I've never had one before). I know it will help my dating life as well. Pretty jacked to start going down this path
Stop caring about dating to get good results.
I feel like when you stop caring if women like or not is when you get good results. In high school I did not care about dating at all and just focused on playing chess and school and I got really good at chess with a few other people in my school to the point we won tournaments and everyone knew me as one of the best chess players in the state. Then girls would come up and start conversations with me but I would not care which I believe resulted in more to approach me. It’s ok if dating is a priority but never make it your number 1 priority always have something you care more about.
0 likes • Jul 8
I would agree. Focusing on yourself is where you will need to be at internally when you do get into your next relationship... Thus, if you focus on yourself now, you'll get it. Snap of your finders. But the thing is........ DO NOT "focus on yourself" so you can get women... YOU HAVE TO DO IT FOR YOU. You have to LITERALLY not care. Like, they barely exist. At the same time, it also means that when you see attractive girl, and logistics avail the opportunity to approach, you still approach. Because it's FOR YOU.
Alpha Time
Hi everyone! So I'm tired of feeling like a "loser". Not getting any girls, not necessarily to date them but to have a bunch to feel like I'm that guy. Also, I want to be that person that everyone wants to be around and hang out with. Feeling respected by everyone. I don't know if I need to improve my looks and personality. What you guys think?
Alpha Time
1 like • Jul 8
Hit the gym. Go out day and night by yourself and just talk. You'll want homies sooner rather than later, so I would say hit a culinary class or something that you find fun that can be correlated with a group activity. Those three things will put you in motion and you'll have friends and girls in your life in no time. Also, smile. A LOT.
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28 years old living in Boise, ID - Law Student

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