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February 2026 Social Circle Game Report IV: Pole Dance Mansion Party & Japanese News Interviewed Me
23 February - 1 March 2026 Last night I went to an 'exotic night' pole dance party at a mansion with my wife, hosted by the same pole dance instructor mentioned in a previous SCG report. There were 9 girls all dressed up to showcase their dancing. While my wife only took one class so far, she came dressed for the occasion and ended up buying a leopard print pole dance outfit from the hostess. Filmed much of the event and tagged some of the dancers on Instagram on my story. It was a lot of fun. But at the same time, there's a really insightful lesson here about femininity and masculinity. I imagine that if most guys tried taking their girlfriend to an event like this, guys would struggle explaining the purpose of it. I came to understand, thanks to the speeches the hostesses gave, such a thing is great for relationships. Nerds and suckers go to OnlyFans EVEN IF THEY ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP because they are not getting this seductive experience from their girlfriends or wives. Their girlfriends/wives probably aren't dressing sexy for them, or giving them such a confident and glowing experience. So of course they go to OnlyFans, strip clubs, etc. Whereas I went along with my wife, she got all dressed up for it, and she genuinely enjoyed it and understood that these are great things to keep romance alive... While other people in relationships let their sex lives run dry due to being too vanilla, boring and uninspired. Pole dance, and fashion, is a demonstration of desire. Something many men lack experiencing even when they are in relationships. A very interesting lesson I have always had a sense of for years, but now my understanding of it is much clearer. The hostess is a mother of 2 and inherited the mansion from her father (Her husband told me that part when I was asking about the place). Another confirmation that your girlfriends SHOULD learn pole dancing or experience something like this, because it sure puts them in a horny and fun mood, and you can learn to frame it as enhancing desire in your relationship. Women SHOULD dress sexy for you and radiate sexual confidence. I wonder how many relationships could have been saved if people understood this.
February 2026 Social Circle Game Report IV: Pole Dance Mansion Party & Japanese News Interviewed Me
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Ice, what is your take on couples where the woman puts it on the guy for romantic plans? "He never takes me anywhere, he never wants to go anywhere romantic", etc. From what I've learned on here, it should be mutual effort and agree that many women forget how to be sexy for their men.
Networking In New York
Instagram fixed, for now. Watching tutorial videos. Making my lists. I wanted to reach out to guys in the New York area to connect with those interested in networking. I believe we could work more successfully by forming a mastermind for those in the New YOrk area who are interested. All of us bring something unique to the table and if we team up we can collectively open more opportunities. Hit me up and let me know if interested; we can link up on Insta and get something going.....
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Long island but can make it out to NYC here and there.
CAMPUS EVENT IDEAS 💡
As a college student navigating MOA, I’d love your thoughts on using these ideas for top-of-funnel events (or if they’re even necessary). These are a few concepts I’ve come up with. I’d really appreciate it if you could poke holes in them or offer suggestions where you see fit. 1. Themed Parties 🎉 Themed parties are common in college and can serve as a great cold-approach icebreaker. My idea is to host one in my building and collaborate with a few well-connected guys to help promote and co-host bi-monthly. 2. Charity Event with a Student Organization🎗️ As Mike says, charity events are powerful as they tap into guilt and are hard to beat. I’m considering partnering with a charitable student organization to co-host an event. The challenge is that I’d essentially be a solo operator trying to organize this, rather than having an established team behind me. I’m unsure how feasible that is 3. Photoshoot Model Call 📸 I’m thinking of reaching out to photographers I know on campus and handling the logistics and recruiting myself. The idea would be to frame it as an opportunity for aspiring models to get professional photos for their portfolios. It could position me as a connector while providing real value. Only thing with that is I’m not sure if that’s viable enough explanation for hosting. Would love to hear y’all’s thoughts on viability, potential pitfalls, and how you’d improve or what’s worth executing.
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@Terence Ma To add to this, getting a group of girls out to an event isn't as easy as it seems. C J, if you're starting at zero get involved with the college group putting on these events and help in anyway you can. Connect with people that way. For the Photoshoot idea, yes, keep it to aspiring models that are trying to build their portfolio. Any signed model in college won't bother, they won't go against any type of contract agreement. Look on instagram for TFP groups (time for print) and try to get involved with those if you want to go that route.
Photo/Video Shoot - Model Response Question
Guys, I got invited by a female teammate for content creation to a photoshoot/music video mixer, in about a week. She is one of the organizers. Right now I'm sending out invites, using a flyer provided by the organizer, Instagram. Another model that I cold DM'ed showed some interest, asking for more information. Which I gave her. Telling her that its a photoshoot and music video session. I gave her the link to the song the video will be based on. This model's last question was "is it paid?". I already messaged by "No, its TFP" (trade for print). Her instagram profile is a business account and some models do have in their bios "dm for rates and booking". My question is, is there a way to word these things so that a model wants to show up without getting paid, but gets value from the photoshoot?
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@Jhoao L could you further explain? I ask because I included the organizers instagrams in the invites. One being a photographer.
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@Ricky Andersen HAHAHA, very true.
MOA vs M3 (Mystery Method - i.e cold approach)
Contrast and compare the two... I can always ask ChatGPT but he's blue pill af. EDIT! : I got approached by Mystery to attend a residential in Toronto. I used to be a PUA in the early 2000s (big Mystery and David DeAngelo cultist), I have attended TNL's NYC residential in 2019 (The Natural Lifetyle) -- 10 numbers, 3 dates, no sex. I'm considering the Mystery res. ( I mean, it's literal Mystery, guys!) but MOA seems more long term effective --- convince me to go full MOA or bust!
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@Felix Urbanek M3 is a more technical name for the Mystery Method.
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@Piotr Melilo All this, yes. If you have the schedule, do both. Cold approach to work on social skills and social circle for better connections and opportunities.
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