I used to live in the DR, I have a woman and a daughter there. I currently live in the USA. In the USA I am constantly rejected by employers and women for having something that is kind of like Aspergers's syndrome. I had three women who had all given me their numbers at a dance venue over the last couple weeks all introduce me to their boyfriends tonight in California. People know me in the DR and I could be a country club member there etc. I know that in the DR I can enter a training program for Quala or ABInBev etc with their residency card and can quickly at least equal the part time job salary I make in the USA. I have to watch for people using me there more, but I am not treated like I have a disability there.

Tiktok is most popular amongst girls 18-24yo now, and they see Instagram as less cool than tiktok. So my question is, are you guys using tiktok at all for top of the funnel and for dating? And how are you using it?

The thing that always confuses me the most is a woman's ego when you reject her advances for example a quick peck on the cheek as a form of greeting well that's what happened to me when I saw my ex because she said she wanted to be friends and respect it and left it as that but a quick peck on the cheek are reserved for family members, and people that you're in a relationship right? I'm assuming so but anyway, I rejected her quick peck on the cheek. I said Just friends she left quickly feeling a bit awkward when I tried to give her a fist bump, and right after that I sent her a GIF fist bump through WhatsApp message saying, "Just like this😎👍" and her response was "I'm not a man I will just greet you from a distance👍 " and said sound good but the general question is that did I just broke her ego?

I just want to settle this debate that I'm having with myself, or more like, go ahead with my action knowing that I will ruffle a few feathers. I'm on holiday now until Monday at a beach resort, saw a few women that I found pretty, but didn't approach. Got me thinking about age differences for the umpteenth time. On one hand, as a 27 year old, I very much favour younger women. I also know that it's also not all about looks, because I want someone who knows herself, someone who is independent (she doesn't need me to be happy), takes care of herself (eats healthily, exercises regularly), is a free thinker (I have nothing against religion), and doesn't spend money like water. Those are my non negotiables. I'd rather go for women who are younger, because I want them. But I'm always open to changing my dating strategy if I think my current ideals are going to lead me to ruin. What scares me the most is that as I get older, I will be subject to the stigma that older guys don't do well with younger women, and it will be seen as creepy if I want women who are much younger (eg being 35/36 and dating a 25-30 year old). But as I said, I am open to anything. Thoughts on the above?

Drop your instagrams guys want to follow more like minded people