Women sleep with the men they choose; men sleep with the women they are allowed access to. BUT, Remember this. Men marry the women they desire; women marry the men they can keep. Men and women are not the same, women choose who fucks, men choose who they get down on one knee for. Most women have to settle once their SMV decays, and as a man's SMV ascends, the power of choice becomes his. Never settle gentlemen, if you become that guy, you are the Prize.