How should I manage it when my male friends are offended when I don’t invite them to smaller events? Main reason being they don’t gel well being around women and act differently when attractive chicks are present. I really want to maintain these friendships and at the same time throw these “container” events.
Hello men, I am currently dating 5 girls. Everyone wants to meet every day/week. I can not give more than 1 day a week. It is hampering my work. What to do? How should I manage it? I am currently double dating on a single day, 3-6 pm with one, then 6-9 pm with one.
Hi, I just finished school and moved to Houston to work at NASA. I am looking forward to building up my social circle and life after spending the last 6 years grinding in grad school. Let me know if anyone is in H-town and wants to network. -Will
Yesterday marked day 75 completed of the 75 HARD program by Andy Frisella. For those who are not aware, it is a mental toughness program designed to establish mental fortitude and discipline. https://andyfrisella.com/pages/75hard-info I had failed 19 times before I successfully completed my 20th go. While a lot of people focus on 75 HARD, it is just one part of the larger "Live Hard" program that Andy has created. These are some of the lessons I have learned from my journey starting back in December of 2021: -SYSTEMS = SUCESS Systems (habits can be a type of system) are a make or break for accomplishing tasks. When you create a system, you create a framework that doesn't require mental thought which create efficiency in your day. I created a system around my workouts (early morning, during lunch, immediately after work, or right before bed where my allotted time windows, a system around my water intake (1 liter first thing in the morning, 1 liter at lunch, a liter during my workout, and a liter before bed), a system for my food (simplified my nutrition to a handful of fast to make items that I rotate through and made sure to track), and a system for my exercises (found a program and followed it based on my goals). Systems free up your personal energy reserves to focus on more important and complicated tasks. -MISTAKES/FAILURES ARE OKAY AS LONG AS YOU LEARN Every time I failed I learned something. I learned a lot of how NOT to do things, and sought a new way to prevent future failures. A lot of systems I developed where created from my failures. So long as failures are not catastrophic and you learn from them, don't be afraid to fail your way to success. -DONT. QUIT. If you quit, NOTHING will change. If you keep attacking, there is always a chance for things to change so long as you don't repeat actions that led to getting the same undesired results. -NO ONE IS COMING TO SAVE YOU. As a man, no one is coming to save you or rescue you from your shitty life. YOU must be the one to build yourself up and create the life you desire. You may find some help along the way, but ultimately men must create the lives they want for themselves (and MOA provides a good framework in which to do so).
Hi everyone I'm Mil, I'm 15 years old and I live in Belgium. I was lucky to find this awsome community and I am looking forward to meeting new people and learning all about networking (the course has been amazing so far).
I looked up some stats the other day, nothing crazy and I didn’t dig too deep but to be a top ten percent, statistically a ten there are some simple requirements , obviously this doesn’t translate exactly to your SMV but stick with me. Under 19% Body Fat 160k In yearly income 6 ft in heigh Meet these and you are a ten out of ten according to statistics, now to get more exact you can find your score out of a 100 and average those together but in the end all men can meet at least the first two requirements.This needs to be spread more in my opinion because I don’t think most young men realize they can improve and aren’t just stuck with where they currently are.
My family doesn't understand that times have changed. You don't just go get a degree anymore or find a local girl to marry you and stay married for the next 50 years. Years ago one of them had the balls to tell me to go vote for a certain politician because XYZ is going to change your life. They don't even know i am trying to build up an online presence. Before I go any further, I didn't disown all of my family, there were some ones that I still try to talk to. Guess what? I just do my own thing, consequences be damned. Even if they're family, they have no business telling you what worked for them while they were growing up while the world has radically changed the past 20 years. Good intentions frankly don't cut it. You unfortunately can't choose your family and some lucky ones (IE Erik Finman bless him) got some pretty cool ass parents. For those who don't know Finman bet his family that bitcoin would make him a millionaire and in return he wouldn't have to go to college. The rest, as they say, was history. I've always had the opinion that whoever 5 people you spend the most time with they'll influence you in ways (both positive and negative). If you want to be a winner go hang with winners. I write this because I made the wise decision years ago. I didn't want to be the biggest fish in the pond when we ate out. I wanted to take my life to the next level.
Maybe don’t completely cut them out, just limit the time you spend with the draining one, this coming from someone who doesn’t know your situation, so if they are truly awful yeah leave them in the dust
To start, all my friends are married and have kids. I have literally ZERO single friends. I've been trolling Meetups and scouring local fb groups but am coming up empty with possible ways to meet like minded people to continue pursuing this journey. So I'm again asking this group for some guidance. Any ideas/suggestions on how to develope some basic social connections? I know we aim for high status connections, but how do we build basic to mid connections in the meantime? I think I've just gotten too old 😆