On The Gentleman of Faith Podcast Titled: "Choose Respect Over Fear" Fear is not making you stronger - it is making you smaller. Anthony Buntyn breaks down why the image of the "tough guy" can sabotage your life, your relationships, and your future, and why respect is the real foundation of leadership, faith, and influence. Anthony shares the personal journey that shaped this message, from growing up with a speech impediment and insecurity to realizing that intimidation may get attention, but it never builds trust. He draws a sharp line between being feared and being respected, showing how fear creates distance, silence, and hidden opposition, while respect creates support, loyalty, and real connection. You'll discover: - Why people judge you in the first 10 seconds - and why that matters - How a "tough" persona can cost you opportunities at work, at home, and in business - The difference between fear, reverence, and genuine respect - Why changing how you dress, speak, and carry yourself can change how people respond to you - How faith and character shape the way others see you - Why Anthony believes the best version of a man is one who leads with dignity, not intimidation He also shares how the Society of Ordinary Gentlemen helped him grow into the man he wanted to become, along with practical encouragement for men who want to improve themselves, mentor the next generation, and live in a way that reflects their calling. Along the way, Anthony highlights the power of community, accountability, and intentional self-presentation - including the details of his journey with suits, etiquette, and even fragrances that help reinforce a gentleman's standard. If you have ever felt pressure to act hard, hide vulnerability, or prove your strength by making others uncomfortable, this episode will challenge that mindset. It is a direct, honest call for men of faith to choose respect over fear and to become someone people can trust, follow, and support. Perfect for men who are rebuilding their identity, growing in faith, or learning how to lead with confidence and character.

This is the first time I've ever had seasonal allergies and the daily onslaught has built up to fatigue. I hate taking unnecessary time off but spent the morning resting up a bit and trying some seasonal allergy meds for the first time. Will restart the day with a client video call and some internal meetings to finish it with progression on our current big project. At the least, the outfit is ready for the day! Navy tailoring with an oxblood-and-brown accessory story for a client video-conference day • Suit — SJ-014, SL-023 (Enzo Tovare): A navy two-button suit in lightweight Super 150s wool, pairing a 42R jacket with size-36 trousers. The slight sheen, roped shoulders, and breathable worsted cloth create a polished business-formal presence without looking heavy on camera. • Shirt — DS-010 (Charles Tyrwhitt): A white non-iron cotton shirt with subtle bird’s-eye twill, a 5.5-inch spread collar, and French cuffs. The crisp white ground provides contrast against the navy suit; it takes 2.25-inch collar stays. • Undershirt — US-002 (Ralph Lauren Polo): A simple white cotton crew-neck undershirt in size XL. It remains discreet beneath the white twill shirt while providing a comfortable base layer. • Tie — NT-040 (Nordstrom): The Walden Geo Jacquard is a low-sheen silk tie in taupe, dark brown, and cream with a small repeating geometric motif. Its warm neutrals connect the navy suit to the oxblood leather accessories without competing with the shirt’s subtle texture. • Pocket Square — PS-005 (Fort Belvedere): A white linen pocket square distinguished by its “U” monogram (funny backstory despite not have a U anywhere in my name). A crisp three-peaks fold preserves the client-ready formality while keeping the suit-and-tie combination visually controlled. • Belt — B-017 (Nordstrom): A flat oxblood genuine-leather belt with silver buckle hardware, tagged size 32. Its color closely coordinates with the shoes and business card case, creating a deliberate leather story throughout the outfit.

I'm buying a new white dress shirt soon and was wondering about undershirt collars: Crewneck or V-neck? Traditionally, we have all worn Crew-Neck shirts. However, I have been leaning more toward V-neck shirts whenever I buy a solid-color T-shirt. I think the difference is that these newer V-necks aren't cut down so low that you look like Patrick Swayze 😇 in the 80s & 90s. Do any of you gentlemen wear V-Neck undershirts?

Headed up to Amarillo for a few hours today. Meetings with contractors and distributors. - heather gray polo with company logo - Brown leather Buckley belt - Slim fit tailored blue jeans - Brown lace up boots