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Shoutout To Chad Smith & Dr. Jason Cole (Setting the Standard!)
Shoutout to a couple of members who set the tone for what makes this community great! First, @Chad Smith with a strong OOTD post. He did exactly what helps others learn: he shared the full outfit breakdown, the details, and the why behind it — from the navy cable knit and brown polo to the indigo 501s, oxblood double monks, matching strap, scent, and watch. That kind of post gives other men real examples they can study and apply. (Link to post) Second, @Dr. Jason Cole for jumping in to help @Ken Erickson with a style question on black tux shoes. That kind of thoughtful member-to-member guidance is exactly what builds a real brotherhood here — not just posting, but showing up to help someone make a better decision when it matters. Ken’s question itself was a great one too: plain toe, cap toe, wingtip, or even black dress boots with a tux. (Link to comment) Post your outfits. Ask your questions. Help your fellow members. That’s how we all get sharper!
Shoutout To Chad Smith & Dr. Jason Cole (Setting the Standard!)
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This Stops Being About Clothes
There's a shift that happens for some men. They stop asking "does this look okay?" and start knowing. Not because they memorized rules — but because they've built a standard for themselves. A quiet confidence that doesn't need to announce itself. You see it in how they walk into a room. In how people respond to them before they say a word. In how much mental energy they have left for things that actually matter. That's not style. That's identity. And identity isn't bought — it's built, through consistent habits and deliberate choices made over time. That's what RMRS Premium is designed for. Not trends. Not outfit grids. A structured path to becoming the man who looks sharp because of who he is — not what he's wearing. If that shift sounds like something you want, the door's open: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/plans
This Stops Being About Clothes
Trying on my old suit jacket
Thought I’d put on my old suit jacket, from when I was 56lb heavier. I look like a kid on my first day of Big School, wearing his dad’s jacket. 😄 Fit first, right? Even the T-shirt is swamping me. Perfect impetus to update my look. The work starts now!
Trying on my old suit jacket
OOTD - Three Fits at the Office
Today was one of my biweekly commutes to the office. Ninety minutes of driving each way, which for the UK is quite a lot. I realise you guys in America have to drive for longer than that to go to the bathroom. First pic is for Outside the Office. Second pic is for Inside the Office. Third pic is for Post-Office Fragrance Testing in Town. Jacket - Stockport Vintage Emporium leather. Sweater - Cashmere 1/4 zip from John Lewis. Shirt - Next. Trousers - Black Next Chinos from Vinted. Boots - Blake Stitched Brown Suede Chelsea Boots from John Lewis. Hat - Grey Newsboy from Heritage Traditions Country Goods & Supply Co. Belt - Modular Ratchet Belt from Amazon. Bag - Brown canvas satchel from the Internet. Watch - Timex Weekender 38mm, and Apple Wrist Computer. Fragrance - Feather Supreme by Jusbox (followed by Encens Precieux by Van Cleef & Arpels in my testing session).
OOTD - Three Fits at the Office
White + Navy/Black = Too stark? Poll
I have been experimenting with white + navy blue (and white + black/charcoal) combination. I think these contrasts are too visually striking. I did find some fashion videos that concur with my opinion. What's your take? Here is the poll.
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