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This Stops Being About Clothes
There's a shift that happens for some men. They stop asking "does this look okay?" and start knowing. Not because they memorized rules — but because they've built a standard for themselves. A quiet confidence that doesn't need to announce itself. You see it in how they walk into a room. In how people respond to them before they say a word. In how much mental energy they have left for things that actually matter. That's not style. That's identity. And identity isn't bought — it's built, through consistent habits and deliberate choices made over time. That's what RMRS Premium is designed for. Not trends. Not outfit grids. A structured path to becoming the man who looks sharp because of who he is — not what he's wearing. If that shift sounds like something you want, the door's open: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/plans
This Stops Being About Clothes
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5 Style Deals Worth Your Attention This Week!
Allen Edmonds Anniversary Sale — Up to 40% off Their biggest sale of the year is live. If you've been waiting to pull the trigger on a pair of Park Aves, Strands, or Higgins Mills, this is the window. US-made, Goodyear-welted, resoleable for decades. A $250 shoe that becomes a $150 shoe doesn't come around often. 👉 allenedmonds.com/browse/sale/new-markdowns Cole Haan Bedford Plain-Toe Derby — $60 at Nordstrom Rack (down from $298) This one is the steal of the month. Clean derby silhouette that works for business casual or dressed-up weekend. British Tan is the best color of the three on sale. Sizes are moving — don't sleep on this. Huckberry — Up to 40% off spring footwear + Flint and Tinder jackets over 50% off Rancourt, Rhodes, Astorflex, Sperry — the full rotation. The Flint and Tinder waxed jackets at 50%+ off are the genuine annual low. 👉 huckberry.com/store/t/category/sale Collars & Co. — Up to 30% off The dress-collar polo brand a lot of you have been asking about since Shark Tank. Solid entry point if you want to try the concept without paying full retail. 👉 collarsandco.com/collections/sale Todd Snyder Clearance Markdowns across suiting, knitwear, and outerwear. Their sale section rotates frequently — worth a scroll if you're building out a more elevated casual wardrobe. 👉 toddsnyder.com/collections/sale Which one are you pulling the trigger on? If you saw other awesome deals that is not included in the list above please drop in the comments below! 🔥
5 Style Deals Worth Your Attention This Week!
Discussion: Formality across cultures
We all have a general sense of what “formal” means — but I’ve noticed it’s far more dependent on culture and location than we might think. Living in the Middle East, the contrast with Western standards is quite clear. For example, in many Western countries, a tuxedo is strictly tied to black-tie events. In Egypt, though, we don’t really have that same structure. The tux is mostly reserved for the groom at weddings — and even then, it’s sometimes treated more flexibly depending on the setting (photos vs. the main event, etc.). Another interesting contrast is with Saudi Arabia. There, the traditional thobe is considered formal wear, while a full suit can come across as more foreign or purely professional. In Egypt, it’s almost the opposite — the suit aligns with what we see as formal, while the thobe feels more traditional and not always suitable in certain formal or professional environments. It’s fascinating how something considered proper in one place can feel out of place just a short distance away. Have you noticed similar differences in other cultures or countries?
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Rainy and Chilly Friday.
I picked up a new sport coat and a navy long-sleeve polo the other day and figured today’s less-than-cooperative weather gave me a good excuse to put them into rotation. The coat leans into those richer, cooler-season tones, but paired with the clean navy base and lighter trousers, it holds its own just fine outside of fall. To anchor everything, I went with a pair of chocolate suede Allen Edmonds loafers—soft texture, deep tone, and just enough presence to pull the whole look together without shouting for attention. They do exactly what a good shoe should: quiet confidence, solid footing. Finished things off with a couple sprays of Polo 67—fresh, sharp, and quickly climbing the ranks in my rotation. All in all, not a bad way to make a gloomy day look a little more put together.
Rainy and Chilly Friday.
Dress Pants with Polos: What's (not) working?
Guess who is going back to office! I am attaching a collage with three images (all minimalist, no watch). I am pairing my navy blue dress pants (wool-viscose blend) with three Polos: a grey (Supima cotton), a violet (Supima cotton), and a magenta (thick cotton but not Supima). The grey and violet Polos have a different type of collar (you can see the difference compared to the magenta Polo, which has a more traditional collar). My work dress code allows Polos and Chino combinations as semi-formal wear, but I want to dress up a notch by pairing my Polos with dress pants. I will complete the look using dark brown lace up dress shoes. Since it is pretty hot (100F) outside, I won't bother layering. Of course, I will wear a brown leather strapped watch as a mandatory accessory. Let me know if any/all of these work for my intended purpose. I don't want to come across as an oddity based on the sloppiness of the attire. PS: I have folded the hand sleeves in the violet Polo as I thought the the sleeves are a bit on the longer side.
Dress Pants with Polos: What's (not) working?
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