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40 years old, never been on a date, fantasizing about suicide
I am 40 years old, and a virgin. I discovered self-improvement and pickup at the age of 17, and studied diligently, and practiced it. I put 3000 cold approaches under my belt, before I even graduated college. And I continued after that - just stopped counting. I have put in the work. SOOOOO much fucking work. And gotten NOTHING from it. Not even a DATE. Not one woman being sexually interested in me for one split SECOND. EVER. I fantasize about suicide. Every day. All day. I don't want to be here anymore. I started fixing my instagram, but I can't post any photos with girls, because I don't know any girls. I DON'T KNOW ANY GIRLS. I AM 40 FUCKING YEARS OLD, AND I'VE NEVER HAD A FEMALE FRIEND. This is wrong. It's wrong and I want out. This life is pointless. It's evil. Being born was evil and wrong. Everything is wrong.
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@Daniel Pugatsky Look at the facts: You’ve operated for 40 years without a consistent dating life or a tight circle. That proves one thing, you don’t need women to survive. You want them. There is a massive psychological difference between those two states, and right now, you’re radiating "neediness." Women have a sixth sense for "Beta" desperation. They move away from men who need them for validation. You claim you’re "putting in the work" and "learning the info," but if the scoreboard shows zero, you aren't executing. Knowledge without results isn't mastery; it’s just mental masturbation. I’ve seen men with far fewer "stats" than you. Worse looking by far, less money, more baggage, land exactly what they were looking for because they stopped making excuses and started adjusting their approach. If the machine isn't working, you don't keep pulling the same broken lever; you fix the internal mechanics. To be honest, I don't buy that you’ve truly pushed your limits yet. You’re likely playing it safe and calling it "effort." It’s time to stop auditing the course and start passing the test.
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@Daniel Pugatsky If you read my message and still believe you need women, then my friend I see why you haven't learned anything and gotten result from all o the information you've digested. The work you need to focus on is how you apply the 'work' you clearly are not doing, I based this on your response.
Do you want to have one girlfriend only or multiple?
I have heard Michael say many times that the top 1% of men are so rare that they can have multiple girlfriends. This topic is very interesting, and I see many benefits of having multiple girlfriends and not just one. So that makes me curious: do you want to have one girlfriend only or multiple?
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I never date a girl who can't respect my wife, better if they can love each other. ;)
Multiple IGs
Sup yall. I have an old ig with no photos but it has 1k+ followers there. I created a new one a few months ago that I plan to post reels on (as an music artist) and it has a in-progress grod, nice highlights and tons of open threads, but few followers. I’ve been handing out the old IG when I meet ppl more so than the new one (since I’m in college), so would you guys says it’s smart in my case to fix both IGs up to par until the new one is ready or only start handing out my developing new page from now on? Or option c keep both but only give attention to 1?
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I have a DJ Persona an Art Persona and a LifeStyle/Businesses Persona, All have very Different Vibes! but lately I've been hearing it's better to just put them all in the same Jar. Show off the other parts of yourself in one area, still not sure the return on that investment, but I'm testing a few things out.
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@C J No I only fixed and focused on the "lifestyle" persona, but now that you've mentioned it, There are some things I can do that would net the same results on my biz and art pages... hummm
I Have A Genuine Question About Career Safety
I want to start a redpill/sexual dynamics reaction channel, but I’m actually scared if it will affect my career. I work in finance right now, as an Licenced life insurance agent on my way to becoming a securities/mutual fund broker. I have the opportunity to own my own agency franchise style. So my career path is not the typical 9-5. But I’d be lying if reputation whether it is with my team or my clients didn’t matter. I truly believe I have something to add to the RP conversation, but I’m worried if it will bleed into my business. My solutions to this problem have been as follows: 1. Only blog with an alias (least favorite option) 2. Wear a mask (which is not great for reactions) 3. Just don’t care, and keep the names/channel separate from my professional profiles. (The riskiest but the way I’d prefer to do it to just be able to show my full self in the content) As far as my research goes, I don’t see the company I work with being too upset as long as I separate the two, but in this world anything could happen since I’m a representative of the company and not completely independent. I know that’s a lot, but I truly feel like I could add to the space. Any thoughts are appreciated
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I'd say stop caring, if someone could be best friends with Epstein and become the president, I think you'll be just fine.
Mindset is Passive. Action is Absolute.
Where you focus your attention is where you'll end up. Mindset isn't something you sit around and ponder it’s a byproduct of the work you do. Right now, the world is split into two camps regarding AI: - The Victim: Men who whine that AI is coming for their jobs. - The Architect: Men who realize this is the greatest leverage tool since the dawn of the internet. While the "victims" are busy making excuses about why the market is changing, the "architects" are using this tech to build empires. The internet created millionaires; AI will create kings. I’ve already decided which one I’m going to be. Excuses don't pay the mortgage, and "controlling your mindset" doesn't mean a damn thing if you aren't executing. I am positioning myself to be on the right side of this wealth transfer. Remember let's not just watch the shift happen, dictate it. If you aren't leveraging the tools available to you, you're choosing to be left behind. Are you going to let a machine replace your output, or are you going to use it to turn you into Goku with the Blue Hair ? I'd like to hear how you all are leveraging.
Mindset is Passive. Action is Absolute.
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Alphonso Cornelius
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Jack of all trades, Master of some! If you ask me to do it I'll get it done! I help people bring their projects to life.

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