How important is attraction for you all in an LTR?
My gf of 1 yr is awesome and would make a great long term wife/mother (emotionally stable, clear communicator, parents still married, similar values/views), but not super attracted to her. Don't think attraction should be the #1 thing, but trying to figure out what's the right balance here. I've yet to find too many super attractive women who are also actually capable of eventually raising a healthy family together, but that could just be my shortcomings preventing me from attracting them.