Michael talks about this all the time - there are three main ways to network and give value Connector, Suggester and Content Creator Being a connector is the simplest way to network and see the social snowball, it's simply connecting others through instagram, at parties and at events. This could be your buddy to a girl you just met, two groups of girls you just met to eachother, a spender to a host/promoter that could help them out, a real estate agent you know to someone you know looking to buy a house. Connecting is simply an action of putting two people with potential common interests and benefits into contact with eachother, and you get the credit for introducing Suggester is a very easy way to lead. Suggesting can be as something as simple to recommending a book you like to someone with the same interest, a restaurant with great food to someone who like's food. You're simply using your opinion on a subject and by making a recommendation you are positioning yourself as an authority on that topic. Suggesting becomes very helpful in group settings because once you get a champion in the group that is on board with your idea it becomes easy to take a leadership frame and recommend the next place to go and set the plans for what you and others will do the next day. Content Creator is my favorite, leveraging the powerful asset of instagram to make people look good, capture moments people won't forget and get exposure for the skillset of making great quality content. This is one of the easiest ways to network with female friends and other high status men.