Yes both genders want to optimize their chance of attracting and retaining the best mate possible, however only women are hypergamous. Hypergamy never seeks its own level, women are always looking for the best deal. This is simply an evolutionary adaptation, not a bug. Millionaire men have zero issue dating a hot McDonald's worker. To successful women, heck even to average women, most men will be invisible to them. We have the globalized Sexual Market Place and social media to thank for that. A King turns any female peasant into a queen, while a queen would never look towards the peasants way. It is what it is, therefore, understand female nature, adapt, and act accordingly. Whether you learn it or not, Hypergamy is a feature present in all women. It is best practice to know where you stand, continue growing and making sure that you become great in all realms as a man. Onwards Gentlemen.