The Real Reason You Don’t Feel Confident · Brojo: Confidence & Integrity

The Real Reason You Don’t Feel Confident

What does it actually mean to be a confident man?

In this video, I break down confidence in a way most people never talk about it — not as bravado, dominance, or pretending you don’t care, but as living with integrity so you stop doubting yourself, seeking approval, or losing sight of who you are.

This is part three of the Nice Guy Recovery series, and it’s specifically for men who have spent years compromising themselves to be liked, accepted, or validated — only to end up feeling invisible, disrespected, or lost. We’ll explore why confidence has nothing to do with impressing others and everything to do with impressing yourself.

I explain how integrity works as an internal operating system, why honesty is the real foundation of confidence, and how constantly hiding your preferences fractures your identity over time.

You’ll also learn why confidence requires risk — including rejection, misunderstanding, and upsetting people — and why avoiding those things is exactly what keeps nice guys stuck.

I introduce the idea of “micro-honesty” as a practical way to rebuild self-trust without forcing yourself into massive, overwhelming changes. I also share a real client story that shows how a single honest moment can radically change your confidence, dating life, career, and self-respect.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re playing different versions of yourself depending on who you’re with — or you’re tired of being liked but not respected — this video will challenge you in the best way.

👉 Watch the full video and see what happens when you stop trying to be impressive — and start being real.

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