It's here! Andy's coaching session recording
When nice guys lose momentum, they usually think the problem is burnout. But most of the time⌠it's actually something else. In a 1:1 coaching session we did live here in Skool, @Andy Wallam came to me feeling stuck after a rough year. In 2025 he left his safe 9-to-5 job to pursue his creative career. Things were going well. Then he got hit with influenza and COVID back-to-back. Months later his body had recovered, but psychologically he still felt that he identified as âthe fatigued guy.â And during the session I pointed out something that might sound a bit brutal: Heâd slipped back into a victim mindset. This is incredibly common for recovering nice guys. When momentum breaks, the brain grabs the first excuse it can find and quietly pulls you back into the old identity â the one where life is happening to you instead of because of you. In the session we break down: ⢠Why setbacks can reactivate the victim mindset ⢠How fatigue and imposter syndrome reinforce each other ⢠The uncomfortable phase of becoming a responsible man again If youâve ever felt like youâre capable of more but somehow keep spinning your wheels, youâll probably recognise yourself in this conversation. The full coaching session is available, enjoy!