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I'm working on creating a Dan GPT and need some beta testers. Who's keen? First 10 to say Yes get the access
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@Daniel Munro Count me in too
Presence.
I have been looking for answers for stuff that felt all wrong on the inside. And that's not all of the story... Things on the outside were pretty creepy too. So either way, inside or outside...Life felt and looked like shit. Pretty bad SHIT. There was guilt, shame at first as if I did something wrong... I could have, but others did stuff too. Afterwards, there was grief and anger at what I went through. The anger and blame turned outside, I acted out often in Alcohol fuelled rage. Which mostly ended up with relationships getting worse, divorce and a feeling of being 'Struck'. I found the more I SEARCHED for a solution, the more it 'evaded' me. Then one WISE Fucking day, I chose to put the load of the world that I was carrying DOWN. And said, at 58 years of age, whatever stuff👆I did wasn't working anyways. So SCREW EVERYONE. I will just BE, no goals other than what comes about and I flow into. Around this time, I read a book by 'Ramana Maharishi' and also by other great yogi's of India. They all shared a common secret thread. That the personality / Ego is the cause of all suffering. More importantly, the personality has no real basis or existence. There is no separate 'Self' that interacts with the world out there. There is ONE Common Consiousness that is present in everyone...and then each of us goes around building a Ego and a Story around that Personality. And this creates a separateness...where we want to get, achieve and all that stuff, for the ego's gratification. Basically, to control the reality out there. Good luck with that :-) So, here's the bottom line from those sages. The consiousness is what is real. The EGO with its thoughts creates persoanlty. And hence becomes separate and is known as the 'SEER'. The one who sees. The seer sees through the 'eyes', sees the SEEN - the object. And then more thoughts and judgements and feelings arise based on whether what is seen is liked / disliked.. Making the mind more entangled and troubled.
2 likes • 23d
@Daniel Munro And the Peace one has been looking outward, always has been there within oneself
What actually moves your business forward
In your experience what actions actually move your business forward What looks productive but does not really help And what simple things have made the biggest impact for you Curious to hear real answers
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@Ruth Emilyy I agree with @Daniel Munro about the service and allowing people to experience before buying. There are few very important things that come before that. If these are not aligned, the business has zero chance of flourishing. The great Gary Halbert was once asked, If 2 people were selling the. exact same humburgers, What is the ONE thing that he would want to make ONE a mega success. His reply is greatly insightful. He replied 'A HUNGRY CROWD.' A receptive market is the key to business success. The other marketing stuff, if not good still will make the business profitable. Anyhoo, here are few pointers: 1. You have to prepare an attractive offer. Its about presenting the offer and stacking a lot of stuff that the prospect would need 'before' and 'after' consuming your service. I'm not saying to give everything away for free. however this stacking is called an 'Offer Stack' and will make your competition's offer look much less valuable. 2. You've to have an eager large enough market / audience wanting and able to pay for your stuff. Otherwise the best offer will fall on its face. And a way to reach them at a low cost and at scale. 3. You've to have an attractive Lead Magnet that you give waway, that's valuable in exchange for their email. And then have an entertaining nurture sequence without overtly teaching , nudging them to your offer, addressing objections and sharing case studies. 4. You should have a easy, smooth, world-class onboarding experience to avoid buyer's regret. These 4 were off the top of my head. Hope it helps.
30 Day Social Circle Challenge DONE: The results are in!!
Hey everyone My respect goes out to all the participants of October’s Social Circle Building 30 Day challenge. It started off light, but quickly got intense. There were amazing acts of bravery, heartwarming connections, and some unexpected results. And I was stoked to see you all supporting each other. (If you want to review the adventure, check out all the players’ posts in the thread here). In this email I will announce the winners and their prizes, and ask for your feedback about running a potential workshop on social confidence and social circle building. WINNERS Grand Prize: @Jason Stobart with 663 points wins - 4x private 1:1 coaching sessions with me (worth $2,600!) - 3-months’ free Brotherhood membership (worth $150) Jason’s bravery with facing rejections and humiliation, combined with his dedication to doing 90% of the activities gave him a firm lead. Congrats!! 2nd Place: @Dana R with 381 points wins - 1x private 1:1 coaching session (worth $650) - 2-months’ Brotherhood membership (worth $100) Dana demonstrated a willingness to try new things and take on a leadership role in her social life that has created real results. 3rd Place: @Aaron Frater with 119 points wins - 2-month Brotherhood membership (worth $100) I was stoked to see Aaron specialize in bringing friends together and creating deeper connections with people already in his life. People’s Choice Award (most supportive player): @Aaron Frater with 12 bonus points also wins - an Integrity Army T-shirt (worth $50) Participation prize: @Adargoma Shayonêh , @Prateek G , @Rutger Diergaarde , @Sid M , @Ernie Jamison , @Hemi Rainford , @Ryan Adams and @Jason Hipp all got points on the board and will get
30 Day Social Circle Challenge DONE: The results are in!!
3 likes • Nov '25
Congratulations to the big three winners and the winners of the participant prizes. I'd have liked to participate, however couldn't as I'm dealing with my real-life challenges. Not to say the 30-day challenges are easy. However, I've decided to dive into the discomfort and accept it as part of the process of life itself. The social interactions come up by default as things have to be done functionally, discussions, negotiations and there are conflicts that come up. The last one is a big one for me, given my anxious -avoidant personality. More on point, building a strong presence in my body has helped alleviate the anxiety to stay in the situation/ conversation. A book on dog training 'Be a pack leader' by Caesar acutally teaches it. How to have a calm asserive presence to be leader to your pet dog. I don't have a dog, yet the lessons on Primal leadership, helps everyday in my life. A shout out to @Daniel Munro with his encouragment to go out socially and have deep conversations. This is difficult, however, I have cultivated a group of 5-10 people that I meet regularly at the swimming pool and health club, and the conversations are open, vulnerable,frank and connection-enabling. This has improved my confidence and allowed me to share honestly and with vulnerabitly. At the same time, have started to listen to the stories of my friends. I used to feel the jitters earlier to be around these or any people. Another resource that has helped is Maxwell Maltz's book Pychocybernetics. I actually am going through the advanced course, which is about building a new confident successful self-image. Sharing my notes and learning from yours. Again, it's the comaradie that keeps the spirits up. Cheers and Congratulations once again. @Jason Stobart @Dana R @Aaron Frater @Adargoma Shayonêh @Prateek G
High five to Slava
This week I want to recognise Brotherhood veteran Slava who followed through with a very uncomfortable challenge recently: busking in public. We see buskers often yet we rarely ask ourselves if we'd have the courage to do that. As a musician, I can tell you it's scarier than playing on stage at a gig, because at a gig people are expecting you and maybe even be looking forward to you. On the street, it's just anyone and everyone. And, as Slava experienced, not everyone will appreciate you. I won't share private details, but he had to practice assertiveness as well! One of the favourite parts of my work is when a client does something that I'd be actually nervous to do. This is the case here for sure! Well done mate
1 like • Sep '25
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