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63 contributions to Brojo: Confidence & Integrity
30 Day Social Circle Challenge DONE: The results are in!!
Hey everyone My respect goes out to all the participants of October’s Social Circle Building 30 Day challenge. It started off light, but quickly got intense. There were amazing acts of bravery, heartwarming connections, and some unexpected results. And I was stoked to see you all supporting each other. (If you want to review the adventure, check out all the players’ posts in the thread here). In this email I will announce the winners and their prizes, and ask for your feedback about running a potential workshop on social confidence and social circle building. WINNERS Grand Prize: @Jason Stobart with 663 points wins - 4x private 1:1 coaching sessions with me (worth $2,600!) - 3-months’ free Brotherhood membership (worth $150) Jason’s bravery with facing rejections and humiliation, combined with his dedication to doing 90% of the activities gave him a firm lead. Congrats!! 2nd Place: @Dana R with 381Ā points wins - 1x private 1:1 coaching session (worth $650) - 2-months’ Brotherhood membership (worth $100) Dana demonstrated a willingness to try new things and take on a leadership role in her social life that has created real results. 3rd Place: @Aaron Frater with 119 points wins - 2-month Brotherhood membership (worth $100) I was stoked to see Aaron specialize in bringing friends together and creating deeper connections with people already in his life. People’s Choice Award (most supportive player): @Aaron Frater with 12 bonus points also wins - an Integrity Army T-shirt (worth $50) Participation prize: @Adargoma ShayonĆŖh , @Prateek G , @Rutger Diergaarde , @Sid M , @Ernie Jamison , @Hemi Rainford , @Ryan Adams and @Jason Hipp all got points on the board and will get
30 Day Social Circle Challenge DONE: The results are in!!
3 likes • Nov 2
Congratulations to the big three winners and the winners of the participant prizes. I'd have liked to participate, however couldn't as I'm dealing with my real-life challenges. Not to say the 30-day challenges are easy. However, I've decided to dive into the discomfort and accept it as part of the process of life itself. The social interactions come up by default as things have to be done functionally, discussions, negotiations and there are conflicts that come up. The last one is a big one for me, given my anxious -avoidant personality. More on point, building a strong presence in my body has helped alleviate the anxiety to stay in the situation/ conversation. A book on dog training 'Be a pack leader' by Caesar acutally teaches it. How to have a calm asserive presence to be leader to your pet dog. I don't have a dog, yet the lessons on Primal leadership, helps everyday in my life. A shout out to @Daniel Munro with his encouragment to go out socially and have deep conversations. This is difficult, however, I have cultivated a group of 5-10 people that I meet regularly at the swimming pool and health club, and the conversations are open, vulnerable,frank and connection-enabling. This has improved my confidence and allowed me to share honestly and with vulnerabitly. At the same time, have started to listen to the stories of my friends. I used to feel the jitters earlier to be around these or any people. Another resource that has helped is Maxwell Maltz's book Pychocybernetics. I actually am going through the advanced course, which is about building a new confident successful self-image. Sharing my notes and learning from yours. Again, it's the comaradie that keeps the spirits up. Cheers and Congratulations once again. @Jason Stobart @Dana R @Aaron Frater @Adargoma ShayonĆŖh @Prateek G
High five to Slava
This week I want to recognise Brotherhood veteran Slava who followed through with a very uncomfortable challenge recently: busking in public. We see buskers often yet we rarely ask ourselves if we'd have the courage to do that. As a musician, I can tell you it's scarier than playing on stage at a gig, because at a gig people are expecting you and maybe even be looking forward to you. On the street, it's just anyone and everyone. And, as Slava experienced, not everyone will appreciate you. I won't share private details, but he had to practice assertiveness as well! One of the favourite parts of my work is when a client does something that I'd be actually nervous to do. This is the case here for sure! Well done mate
1 like • Sep 29
@Slava K
No boundaries. No respect.
My Son turned 16 yesterday. He lives only down the road from me. He doesn't reply to my simple messages. I stopped communicating with the mother a year ago because she doesn't reply either unless she wants to have a go at me. That's what it feels like. He was busy yesterday so today I cooked and baked and bought a cake, thinking he'll come up once he's finished what he's doing. Even though messages to get clarity on that were met once again with nothing. I thought to myself, all I can do is do my best for the things I can control and not get angry because of my pain from how I feel they're treating me, and get sad and want to throw the towel in and do nothing. That wouldn't be fair on him because he's just a teenager, a child. So I have to be the adult and still be there for my Son and not try to control what I assume is going on outside of me. I have a feeling this all stems from the mother's pain if any, she has with me. And also my lack of boundaries and lack of asking for respect and showing that I at least mean something to myself. I messaged the mother tonight and she said no he's not coming. I don't want to reply to her and get more sad. This has been going on for ages but getting gradually worse and worse. No cooperation at all. I feel like going away and pretending they don't exist anymore.
3 likes • Sep 8
@Hemi Rainford We've spoken on the phone few times. And I found you to be a solid man of the world having some difficult temporary circumstances. We all have circumstances not problems. Circumstances change through actions. Problems keep us struck as we often keep going in circles thinking we are in some kind of a prison. We are often in the way of solving them. Based on your circumstances, actions you take are based on feelings/ emotions. And these are based on your narrative / story. If you think, no one loves you, and you are alone,etc. What kind of motivation /emotions would show up. would they help you change your current circumstances? Remember, these are just thoughts, just words in your mind. If you change them, your emotions change. And then your motivation increases to take solid concrete steps to move ahead. You're are perfect the way you are. Drop the story and take each day as it comes. Take small actions to change your circumstances. Focus on progress not results. A slight smile on your lips, a song humming as you do the work needed. No story, no drama....let that fall away. Good luck Mate.
1 like • Sep 8
@Daniel Munro one hundred percent right šŸ‘
Brojo Lessons - free ebook!
Hey guys, A few years ago, inspired by Marcus Aurelius' "Meditations", I wrote a book of short Lessons I've picked up from my time as a coach and running Brojo. If you'd like a copy of this book, type "Lessons" into the comments below and I'll DM it to you Cheers Dan
Brojo Lessons - free ebook!
1 like • Aug 15
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T Shirts Are Here! But here's a catch...
The Brojo t-shirts are now available! And they look badass You can choose the writing you want on the bottom - could be any of these - New Zealand - Australia - Worldwide - Integrity Army - Confidence - America - Asia - Brotherhood - Czech Rep - Europe - Original - United Kingdom HOWEVER... While I might make them available for purchase later, I actually like the idea of making them exclusive, something you must be given: a gift you EARN as a reward for patronage, loyalty, support and growth of Brojo. I wanna hear from you guys... What do you think I should set as criteria to earn one of these shirts? What would make them a badge of honour that someone knows they deserve recognition for their contribution to this community? Comment with your ideas below!
T Shirts Are Here! But here's a catch...
2 likes • Apr 24
@Daniel Munro All good ideas. Another one, It can be on direct sales at a price point. With a customized two - three worded message. The message makes each t-shirt a personal branded one too. Not everyone can meet the above criteria of engagement, membership,etc So, either you qualify based on memberships, referrals,etc or you can buy it to be part of the movement kind of a thing. It works out for everyone.
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