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Brojo: Confidence & Integrity

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42 contributions to Brojo: Confidence & Integrity
Bomb Skool
Snuggle up everyone, it's story time. I’ve always loved water. Jumping into it. Swimming in it. Just being near it. In New Zealand we have this beautiful, slightly unhinged tradition called bombing - jumping into water in a way that creates the biggest splash possible. Not graceful. Not elegant. The goal is chaos. Noise. Water everywhere. The other day I was down at the waterfront at a local swimming-and-jumping spot. It’s one of those places where there are always a few locals who are elite bombers. Huge splashes. Professional commitment. Years of aquatic nonsense under their belts. I wanted to bomb. But then the old fear showed up. What if my splash is tiny? It will be tiny What if people laugh? What if I do this big dramatic leap… and it’s basically a sad puddle? I stood there overthinking the physics of water displacement like my integrity depended on it... Then, I called - bullshit Something clicked from the social confidence challenge Instead of trying to avoid people laughing at me, I reframed it. “What if this is rejection therapy?” “How many rejections can I get?” “How many people can laugh at me today?” Suddenly it wasn’t about the splash anymore. It was about collecting laughs. So I jumped. Bombed. Jumped again. Bombed again. Rather than laughing, people started giving me tips. Sure their were some laughs. But from me, no hesitation. No build-up. Just over and over. Big ones. Awkward ones. Questionable ones. Absolute chaos. And here’s the weird thing. Somewhere along the way, my splash got… better. Not only that - the big splash locals started nodding. Smiling. One even threw out a compliment or a clap. Who knew? Possibly Dan. Now I bomb freely. Joyfully. With confidence. And if someone laughs? Perfect. Ill try to drop some vids at some stage. There is a local council run bomb competition. I'm entering.
1 like • Feb 2
My splash is growing!
1 like • 15d
Mission complete ✅️ This weekend I entered the competition and completed my manu challenge! You can see here my respectable 7.7metre manu. It didn't get me into the finals but I got done what I challenged myself to do. The photo is me with the coffin king and current champion and the Gorilla king who gave me so much help.
Who's keen for intensive action-taking?
As I've hinted at recently, later in the year I'll be trialling something new: a small group of hand selected people who are pushed over a short intense period of time to seriously level-up, through being held to account and supported to take efficient, brave actions of integrity. There will only be a small percentage of people here who are ready and would benefit from this burst-of-action approach. I want to get a sense of who I should keep in mind for this experience. If you feel that you're ready to drop all hesitancy and content-bingeing, and do a few weeks of intense, focused, highly-valuable behaviour changes, guided and supported by me and others like yourself, comment ACTION below.
1 like • 18d
Action
🔥 Day 28: Your 12-Month Integrity Plan
This is where it all comes together. Review your previous comments in the 30 day challenge thread: https://www.skool.com/brojo-the-integrity-army-6491?c=b4ccdb0a5fbe4610b22ad78c48a2dabb&s=newest-cm&fl= Create a short plan including: - Mission statement - Identity commitments - Daily routines - Health baseline - Money goals - Relationship standards - 3 keystone habits - One fear you’ll face this year Post below: Upload or summarize your plan.
1 like • Feb 14
It's pretty personal so I have just showed a snippet. But it's done! The the first full version is complete! Full disclosure - I got Gemini to do the dog work.
🔥 DAY 15 – Discipline Beats Motivation
Motivation is unreliable - too emotional to depend on. Discipline is different; it's a rational decision to do what is RIGHT rather than what feels good in the moment. Answer honestly: 1. What do I wait to “feel ready” to do? 2. What would disciplined action look like instead? Then choose one reminder you’ll follow regardless of your mood. E.g. I will often ask myself, “What is the best thing to do right now for my future self’s success?” Post below: “My discipline principle for this year is…”
2 likes • Feb 13
To show my body respect. To finish this challenge and analyze the summary for another discipline answer
🔥 Day 16: Money Awareness (No Avoidance)
Most financial stress comes from avoidance leading to mismanagement, not lack of money. Your task: Write down: - Monthly income (average) in the hand i.e. after tax - Fixed costs - rent, food, power, petrol etc. - Variable spending - average you spend on non-necessary things e.g. subscriptions, eating out, clothes - Savings / debt - totals Then ask: “What would need to change about my money behavior to align with my values (and ensure I don’t spend more than I earn)?” Post below: Share one realization you had (no numbers needed).
3 likes • Feb 13
I struggled with this one and stalled. Now with a little reflection....I can survive with my salary. I bought my house which has a few extra bedrooms to share with some interesting borders. The answer for me is actually pretty simple. If I have one border, I save a little, if I have two I save a lot!
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Jason Stobart
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@jason-stobart-4064
Living a much better life but always looking for the gaps where work is needed. Got plenty of them - ready and willing to work on them too.

Active 14d ago
Joined Sep 22, 2025
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