“When you make a mistake, be kind enough to forgive yourself and learn from it.” ~Unknown TAKING ACTION: ✅ After reading today’s post, do you see why it’s important to speak “realistically” positively to yourself? Friends, if you want lasting change, you must change the way you speak to yourself. On Wednesday, I mentioned a topic that I think is so important—how we speak to ourselves. In fact, I don’t just think it’s important. I KNOW it’s important—psychology tells us so, and if you’re a spiritual person, there’s proof there, too. 💯 Psychology tells us that in order to change, we must change the way we speak to ourselves; however, there is one caveat—changing your thoughts requires you to actually believe what you’re saying. For example ⬇️ 👉Old thought: “I am a failure, and will never be able to control myself around food.” Some people will tell you to turn this negative talk into a positive thought, such as, “I’m the best, and nothing can knock me down.” Here’s the deal—that’s simply not true. If you truly want to change the way you speak to yourself, you must give yourself both truth and grace. That’s the answer. So, instead of practicing what I call “toxic positivity”, try replacing your negative thoughts with positive, yet truthful and realistic thoughts. A good example of this would be ⬇️ 👉 “I am learning. I am retraining my body, brain, and taste buds, and that isn’t easy. Though I slipped up, I know I’m still practicing a new lifestyle—and practice leads to progress over time.” See the difference there? As you learn to speak to yourself differently, always remember to give yourself both truth and grace. This equation will offer so much in terms of overall growth! ✨