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Dec '25 • 
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Books that quietly shaped how I think, feel, and live 📚
As promised, here are a few reads that stayed with me over the years. Not because they were “nice books”. But because each one left a fingerprint on how I think, feel, and move through life. Psycho-Cybernetics (Maxwell Maltz) This one taught me that self image runs everything. If you keep “seeing yourself” as the person who quits, procrastinates, or disappoints, you will keep living that loop. Change the inner picture, and behavior starts to follow. The Untethered Soul (Michael A. Singer) Big reminder: you are not the voice in your head. You are the one who hears it. When I really started practicing that, the mental noise lost a lot of power. The Power of Now (Eckhart Tolle) I read this while traveling in Thailand and I applied it immediately. It was honestly bizarre how quickly you can feel the difference when you stop living inside “later” or “what if” and return to the present. It was one of the first times I experienced peace as something practical, not philosophical. The Expectation Effect (David Robson) This gave me a grounded, research-backed way to understand something we all feel: what you expect shapes what you experience. He uses practical examples and data around placebo and nocebo effects, where positive expectations can improve outcomes and negative expectations can worsen them. Mastery (Robert Greene) This book helped me connect the dots back to childhood. Greene argues your “Life’s Task” often leaves clues early on, in what you were naturally drawn to before the world told you what was “useful.” What hit me most is how many masters went through a real shift after years of apprenticeship. A phase where they stopped copying and started experimenting, and something more intuitive and original switched on. He uses biographies of people like Darwin and Einstein to show that pattern. Reality Transurfing (Vadim Zeland) This one goes deeper for me than “just think positive.” The idea that stuck is reducing “importance.” The more you overcharge a goal with pressure, identity, or desperation, the more you create inner tension and weird resistance. Another concept is “pendulums,” basically dramas or group energies that try to hook your attention. When you stop feeding them with emotional charge, you get your energy back and you move cleaner.
5 likes • Dec '25
Thanks for this list Jim, The Power of Now was the first book that gave me that feeling of expansion, of realizing there's so much more to me, to life and I've been on a long journey to find that ever since. Psycho cybernetics has been on my shelf for years but I never managed to get into it and The Untethered soul has been on my want to read list for a very long time, I did read The Surrender Experiment (well most of it) which was awesome. There are so many books I want to read and rarely finish one because I want to read another, in fact I usually read a few at the same time rather than trying to just focus on one, I'm not sure if this is a good or bad thiing, I still don't get through them because I don't read as much as I used to, I find it much harder to focus for that long these days.
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@Anne Davis i read while eating breakfast, so at least I read a little every day, and depending on what time I get to bed and how tired I am I sometimes read at night too but I'm lucky if I make it 10 minutes before I fall asleep, which is a good thing, a good (fiction) book used to keep me awake all night, because sleep never came easily anyway, so I'm not complaining about falling asleep quickly now. I rarely indulge in reading fiction anymore, I quit years ago because I would literally skip eating, sleeping, everything once I was deep into a good book. Since menopause I haven't been able to focus like that so I do read a bit of fiction but there are so many nonfiction books I want to read and so little time, energy or focus available for reading now I rarely bother with fiction but I do miss it. I also listen to audio books in the car, but I don't usually spend a lot of time in the car anymore either so it takes me months to get through a book. Do you have any recommendations? I am listening to "stalking the wild pendulum" right now which is awesome if you like that kind of thing, and I finally finished "the holographic universe" which I recommend too, again, if you are into metaphysics books. Take care 😊
Day 15 of My 100‑Day Digital Declutter
Fifteen days in and look — I don’t feel lighter yet, and the laptop isn’t exactly sprinting — but I can see the path. I’m on the way. And honestly, that’s enough for now. Current (completely scientific) stats: - 4,392 screenshots deleted — mostly “inspiring craft ideas, flowers, recipes ” I never made - 27.8GB of random files gone - 812 duplicate photos (still adorable, still unnecessary) - 7.8K to still go through - 3 apps removed - USB Zoo: 22 USB sticks with 47 versions of the same files, all waiting for categorisation, de-duplication - Hard drive still hiding duplicate files like it’s running a witness protection programme Email Goal: Operation Inbox Tidy I’m aiming to maintain my three inboxes at: (currently sitting at 12000) - 250 - 150 - 100 …with proper folders, actual structure, and a daily rhythm that Future‑Me can actually follow. The Newsletter Chaos (I Did This to Myself) I unsubscribed from 27 newsletters I joined because of one interesting article each. They’ve stopped bombarding me. I’ve stopped panic‑subscribing. And I’m learning to trust that I can think of what I want to know later — and go research it when I actually need it, instead of hoarding content like a digital dragon. Since I Stopped Doom‑Scrolling the Book of Faces My “subscribe to everything shiny” reflex has dropped dramatically. Yeippe. Yehaa. Turns out less scrolling = fewer impulsive sign‑ups. The Photo Problem (I Am the Problem) No more snapping 47 blurry photos of craft ideas “for later”. If I’m not in creative mode, the camera stays in its lane. My Daily Rhythm - 20 mins per day - Quick inbox tidy → keep those numbers in range - Close all tabs except the ones Tomorrow‑Me will actually use - Save half‑done docs so Recovery stops judging me - Downloads sweep → delete the goblins (there is over 2.7 K of files and 4.65 GB- of mess) - Laptop to sleep → “Night night team, we’re doing our best” Day 15. Not lighter yet. Not faster yet. But I’m building the rhythm, the habit, the muscle — and that’s where the magic starts.
Day 15 of My 100‑Day Digital Declutter
1 like • May 24
Congrats Deb, this sounds so like me, except the progress 😂 I'm working on it but my files and especially photos, are worse than weeds, they seem to grow faster than I can remove them.
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1 like • May 15
@Winfried Jakob this seems to have been happening quite a bit recently, but it seems to have settled down. When it’s happened to me I just have to come back later and it works ok again.
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@Corinne Clements thanks Corinne
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Hi everyone👋 Im based in the UK and Im doing my Masters in Creative Practice, and Im loving the challenge but also drowning in it. Overwhelm and imposter syndrome are both taking their toll. I've not had a formal diagnosis, but I really don't need one. My son is Autistic with ADHD, my husband is ADHD, and I am without a doubt, ADHD, though I have been treated with antidepressants for the last 40 years of my life. I'm not depressed, just ADHD. I read so much when my son was diagnosed, some of it rang true for me too, but I just thought I was projecting. There wasn't, and still isnt, a lot out there about women with ADHD, and how the issues are similar but different. As time has progressed I have realised that I fit into the niche of ADHD female, and it made my life make sense, but not easier. I am 60 this year, this is me taking my life back, and becoming a whole person. Its taken a lot of sacrifice to get here, so many missed opportunities, but I'm nearly 60 not nearly dead, so its worth a shot. It cant make the situation worse than it currently is, though I accept that change will probably bring uncertainty. I'm hoping this can be limited by having a community alongside me who is going through the same process, and that we can prop each other up if need be. I can't wait for this to start, I look forward to sharing the journey with you. Kate
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@Shani Sherwin I was wondering that too, sounds interesting
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2 likes • Apr 20
@Cathy A Castagna I guess abilify is new compared to lithium and lamictal 😂
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@April Robinson wow! That's weird, for me the thought of dying, specifically having that option as an out, was always comforting to me, fortunately, even at my most hopeless I never reached a point where that looked like the best option. I guess that was suicidal ideology in a way but not in the sense of "I want to do it" just as a potential escape route if things ever got so bad I couldn't deal with it anymore, I found the thought comforting, enough so that it actually made me feel less hopeless. Thanks for sharing your experience with abilify, I'd already decided I'm not interested in trying any more meds right now, I think I might try emdr and will give the meds I'm on more time to see where I get with them, but I don't see the point of keep adding more drugs to the mix, one set of crutches should be enough for now 😁
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