Hey guys, now that the Road Map pathway course is completed, what should we work on next? Cast your vote below, or suggest something in the comments

Have your say - vote below on which of these upgrades you want me to make to this Brojo community next: (or comment below with your ideas - I'll count "likes" on your comment as votes)

Over the last few months, I have been pushing myself to sing at a local open mic night. I have been told I have a good voice and encouraged to continue. One person has been pushing me to go further and enter Britain's got Talent. I feel on the surface that I can do that, but I cannot seem to make myself record the video I need to do so. I make excuses and justify my reticence with time, work and caring for my Brother, but I know in my heart these are false. I am finding so hard to go for this opportunity to showcase my talent, and I think it is down to that thought that I don't deserve to succeed. I want to feel the confidence of having pushed my edge. But it is TERRIFYING!!

Hey everyone This week I'll run a live call that anyone can join. I'll be putting a new AI app to the test to see how well it acts as a virtual coach. This app has been programmed with my podcasts, videos, and even some coaching transcripts, to respond to queries in the same way I would - exploring the issue, challenging beliefs, and helping the person find a way to take productive actions of integrity. On the call, I'll take YOUR questions and plug it into the app LIVE so we can give it a real test run. This will help me decide whether to keep this thing or ditch it. If you're keen to have your questions about building confidence, Nice Guy recovery, dating and relationships, and anything else answered, please either bring them to the call, or DM/email them to me if you wish to remain anonymous, and we'll see how it goes. Call will be hosted here on Skool, see the Calendar tab for details. Cheers Dan

Hello everyone I am a newcomer to this group, and because this week and this morning has been challengin. I began the week having suicidal thoughts. I spent most of Tuesday evening unable to sleep and thinking of ways of killing myself. It is it the first time and for the past two years, I've had those thoughts regularly. I have three beautiful dogs, and normally the worry of who is going to look after them, had stopped me from doing anything. So, instead of killing myself, I practiced self harm - unhealthy life style. I have had HIV for 30 years so practicing an unhealthy life style is as close and it gets to passive suicide. Yesterday I made a commitment that I wouldn't do anything until I have tried all the possibilities. This morning I woke up very frustrated. I was walking my dogs, feeling frustrated because at the moment living conditions and financial situation are very challenging. It feel powerless and frustrated. Now the only thing that I had control over - my body - I have relinquished my power and lost the right to do whatever I please with it. Unfortunately my dogs got the wrong side of my frustration. One of them wanted to go out at 6am. Normally we go out at 7.30am so I thought she was desperate. When we are out, I realised that she just wanted to go out soon. There was no urgency. When we got back home, I shouted at them, I smashed a breakfast bowl on the floor, and I carried on shouting saying: can I just have a fucking hour for myself in the morning!? I don't fucking wake up early to take you out. I cleaned up the mess, and I got my shamanic drum out, and I did some meditation to get rid off the frustration. The frustration is still there. Bubbling and this is why I thought to share this here. I don't know if I am allowed to share this kind of info but at this moment it is more satisfying than hitting my forehead against a wall.