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Brojo: Confidence & Integrity

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38 contributions to Brojo: Confidence & Integrity
🔥 Day 9: Design Your Day (Stop Relying on Motivation)
If your day has no structure, your emotions will make all your decisions. We know how that goes! Discipline is doing what you know you should do, instead of doing what you feel like doing right now. Your task: Design: - A minimum viable morning routine (10–30 mins) - A simple shutdown routine at night (The Morning Routine course in the Classroom will help with this). Include: - One physical action, e.g. exercise in morn, stretching at night - One mental action, e.g. meditation in morn, journaling at night - One integrity action (something you usually avoid), e.g. cold shower in morn, quality time with kids at night Post below: Your morning routine plan... and the thing most likely to derail it.
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@Prateek G preparing the clothes the night before is a good one! It really takes the stress out of decision-making in the morning
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I have a morning ritual to add ... I really like Jordan Peterson's advice about making your bed first thing in the morning. I've been doing that for a few years now, and it brings an immediate sense of order and calm to my day.
🔥 DAY 15 – Discipline Beats Motivation
Motivation is unreliable - too emotional to depend on. Discipline is different; it's a rational decision to do what is RIGHT rather than what feels good in the moment. Answer honestly: 1. What do I wait to “feel ready” to do? 2. What would disciplined action look like instead? Then choose one reminder you’ll follow regardless of your mood. E.g. I will often ask myself, “What is the best thing to do right now for my future self’s success?” Post below: “My discipline principle for this year is…”
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My discipline principle for this year is: When I feel the urge to avoid what I should be doing in favour of something more immediately pleasurable, I give myself permission to do the pleasurable thing — but only after I complete the main task I’m procrastinating on. This framing creates motivation where there was none before, and more often than not, by the time I’ve finished the task, the urge for the “feel-good” distraction has disappeared.
🔥DAY 13 – Your Non-Negotiable Health Baseline
The functioning of your body is the foundation of everything else. Neglect it at your peril. We’re not aiming for perfect, we’re aiming for sustainable. Your task: Define: - Exercise frequency + type - 3–5 simple eating rules This is your bare minimum, even on bad weeks when you’re sick, tired and depressed. Post below: Share your baseline (again, not your ideal).
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Exercise: Daily. Minimum is a 20-minute walk even when I’m sick or down. In normal weeks I also do Muay Thai and dance. Eating rules: – 80/20 healthy vs indulgent – Mediterranean ingredients as default – Drink ~2L water per day – Eat slowly
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@Egor Titov the supplements are an interesting point. I like to rotate adaptogens for anxiety (e.g. ashwagandha).
🔥 Day 5: Integrity Audit (No Beating Yourself Up)
This isn’t about guilt, it's about honesty and self respect. Your task: Reflect on last year and write three short lists: 1. Key situations or areas of life where I consistently acted with integrity 2. Memorable moments where I betrayed myself 3. Patterns I see repeating that are worth doing something about (i.e. keep or change) This isn't about judging yourself, it's about identifying gaps in your integrity that require attention. Post below: Share one uncomfortable insight you noticed about yourself. Don't defend it, or make excuses for it, or beat yourself up over it. Just observe and identify.
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My uncomfortable insight: I’m good at big, clean integrity moves (ending living situations, changing support systems, pruning my social circle, enforcing family boundaries), but I hesitate with “micro-truths". I self-edit to keep things smooth, and I can get defensive when I feel dismissed (especially with my dad).
🔥 Day 7: Who Are You by December 31st?
Now that you have a basic idea of your core values, what behavioural processes are these likely to produce? What habits of behaviour should you aim for to help live by these values? Imagine it’s December 31st 2026 and you’ve lived the year well. Your task: Write a short description of what should happen this year with your different areas: - Health? - Career/finances? - Relationships and social life/skills? - Psychology and mindset? - Mission and purpose? Focus on processes, not achievements. E.g. “I worked out every day” is better than “I got muscular” “I initiated confrontations” is better than “I got lots of dates”. Comment below: Share one paragraph that best captures “future you” - 1 sentence per area of life.
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Mine: - Health? Eat Mediterranean ~80% of meals, morning walks before work, 8hr sleep routine most nights. - Career/finances? Increase fluidity during high-stakes meetings and rebuild my savings to where it was before I paid off my student debt. - Relationships and social life/skills? Consciously and consistently revisit my social garden — reduce time with poor fits, invest in people who inspire me, appreciate presence without forcing labels. - Psychology and mindset? Practise openness and non-defensive reactions (pause before responses). - Mission and purpose? Nurture my creativity and others’ by protecting regular writing time and taking steady steps toward my long-term dream: running academic + creative writing retreats.
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Dana R
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Working in a start-up in the research sector. Interests: travelling, reading, writing, hiking, boxing ... and eating good food!

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