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109 contributions to Men of Action Forum
Struggling to approach
I have approached at least 85 women this year. Stopped doing it in June as 1) I felt it was a really ineffective way to meet people, especially women, and 2) my dad told me I'm just wasting my time trying to meet women this way. I haven't gotten any negative reactions from approaching, at best the women have seemed really indifferent and don't really care. In theory, it seems to me that although my extroverted nature would help in approaching, so far in practice, the Singaporean culture appears to be too introverted when meeting people in this context. I feel as though I'm fighting a uphill battle in this area. That being said, I have made time to meet people in interest groups and even got on an app where I meet 5 random people for dinner every Wednesday as part of my social life. Nonetheless, I can't just leave it to interest groups and dinners to meet new people. I'm feeling very conflicted over cold approaching. What am I supposed to do if see a beautiful woman when I'm out and about? I find her pretty, so why not approach her?
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The harsh reality is if you can offer a pretty woman what she want's you're just 1 in a million guys that vying for her attention. You can let her know she's pretty but don't push things further it's shows desperation. Just complement and say have a nice day, you can build on this later
Anyone in Houston?
Anyone in HTX might be there for a few months
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New comment 8d ago
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Hi @Sam Karim! I’ll be by Westheimer and HWY 6 . Might be going for a few months. Where are you located?
Hypothesis: There are three types of Freedom (Relative to High Status)
I've realized in meeting people and traveling that there are 3 types of Freedom. 1. Freedom to BE wherever you want I was at a day party and everyone has good jobs, a few doctors, dentists, government workers. As a remote worker in tech, I stayed in Brazil for 1 month, my company didn't care, and I plan to travel a lot more. However Dentists, in office workers, and governments workers don't have this luxury. I can make 100k and spend it in Colombia for 3 months and work, for others they can maybe take 1-2 weeks of vacation but all that money has to be spend in the currency they made it in. 2. Freedom to BUY Whatever you want This explains itself, Money gives you the freedom to buy whatever you want essentially, experiences, cars, drugs anything 3 . Freedom to DO whatever you want This is a tough one, some of the wealthiest people don't have the option to do whatever they want. Some people are in marriages they hate and can't leave cause of the kids but are worth millions. Some people are enslaved by the responsibilities of their lives. Now if it's something you want to do sure. But how many are literally forced to do this they would rather not do..that is a large portion of society. Don't get me wrong responsibility is good and we all have things we must do even if we don't want to but there is Freedom in choice. In Conclusion I do think 1 of these three can show status.. I'd rather be a mobile nomad making 60k USD than a Neurosurgeon confined to a city but making 800k USD. But I might not have the freedom to BUY whatever I want. Just a thought, any feedback?
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New comment 10d ago
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@Michael Rincon well said!
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@Steven Burkett Good points it’s a double edge sword… you can do good things.. you can take risks against laws too… there’s an underworld of criminals that don’t get caught… you are free but never free from consequences
NYC and Philly Content Shoot and Container Event
I am currently planning two events an intimate model shoot and content day either September or October. https://www.instagram.com/iamrgk and few other east coast moa people are joining. If you are interested in joining or learning more feel free to dm. Only looking to have 5 more people on. Priority going to anyone with a complete Philadelphia list or connections with Philadelphia Venues. Update :2 more slots for the Philly event available. If you have a Philadelphia list let me know.
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New comment 9d ago
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I’m interested
Any book recommendations?
Reading 100 million dollar leads, any more recommendations?
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New comment 14d ago
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@Yvam Nessyma thank you!
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