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371 contributions to Brojo: Confidence & Integrity
Daily Dose of Integrity
Hey everyone, from now on I will post all Daily Dose of Integrity newsletters into this one thread, to avoid clogging up the newsfeed every day. See the latest comments for the most recent Daily Doses. Enjoy!
1 like ‱ Oct '25
@Daniel Munro Yes, I know it has taken me years to gather experience and evidence (i often feel I'm a slow learner. That's a beleif itself that I used to use as a blanket stament/beleif. I am slow with some learning, but there are some things I pick up quickly and make use of , is more the truth) for most of the changes of beleif I have had. With the slow learner one, I questioned why I was having such trouble learning things I wanted too, and came to conclusions. Over time though I have learnt that almost never do I find it a truth to say "this thing is always this way" thre are always exceptions. I can always view my beleifs through values rather than accept the conclusions my fear and trauma have had me make. There are many examples. A massive one for me is alcohol. I believed completely I could not live without regular heavy drinking in my teens and 20s, but the fact I have not had any alcohol, and am still learning and growing nearly 30 years after I gathered enough evidence and experience to stop drinking alcohol. Theres other beleifs that have been as entrenched like the people pleasing beleifs, that have taken much more counter evidence gathering, that have taken much longer to question deeply, challenge, and experiment with changing...but they too are able to be challenged and revised.
2 likes ‱ 4d
@Andy Wallam The 51% rule changed my life ! First thing i remember @Daniel Munro put me onto.
đŸ”„ Day 9: Design Your Day (Stop Relying on Motivation)
If your day has no structure, your emotions will make all your decisions. We know how that goes! Discipline is doing what you know you should do, instead of doing what you feel like doing right now. Your task: Design: - A minimum viable morning routine (10–30 mins) - A simple shutdown routine at night (The Morning Routine course in the Classroom will help with this). Include: - One physical action, e.g. exercise in morn, stretching at night - One mental action, e.g. meditation in morn, journaling at night - One integrity action (something you usually avoid), e.g. cold shower in morn, quality time with kids at night Post below: Your morning routine plan... and the thing most likely to derail it.
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@Daniel Munro Yes...that explains my long term , getting to bed on time issues.
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@Daniel Munro Such a key on going practice. I relate to that thing of not clearing the backlog, not processing the day. I know if I don't, not only does it upset my getting to bed on time,it means I wake the next day incomplete and with stress.
I have actually been scared of succeeding. Wtf?!?
This reminds me when I was a child when I would shy away from things because I did not know what was on the other side. Here I was six years old in the kitchen and my dad stood in front of me and said "Go play with the kids at the playground. Make some friends you'll have fun." I immediately shot back with "But daddy I'm scared. What if the kids don't like me?" He replied, "Boy go to the playground and have fun." "Yes daddy", I replied and walked out the door. As I was walking towards the playground I felt my heart pounding and then I started thinking to myself "man what if they don't like me?" I got to the playground and all the kids were playing on the swings and there were a lot of swings. I found the first free swing, ran and jumped on it and started swinging. But then I noticed that the other kids were jumping out the swing. So I got halfway up and jumped out the swing myself. That's when the unexpected happen for me. The other kids laughed and smiled and yelled at me "do it again, that was so cool!" I spent the rest of the afternoon swinging as high as I could and jumping out of the swings. I got along with the kids and they liked me and I liked them. Every time I jumped out the swing it felt like I was flying. I learned two things that day. I learned how to fly by swinging and I learned that what was on the other side of my fear of the kids not liking me was pure bliss. But I had to walk to the playground in order to find that out. I recently started implementing Daniel's goalsetting from his book The Legendary Life. I have momentum going in my life right now. But now a new problem has emerged. I feel the fear of my dream life starting to come into focus. WTF?!? 😳 This has caught me off guard. Well........... I gotta be like the six-year-old me and walk to this playground of my dreams, get on the swings so I can jump out and learn how to fly. Maybe this time too, I'll find out that making my dreams a reality can also be pure bliss.
2 likes ‱ 5d
@Daniel Munro I'm more and more getting this. Ive always wanted to find intellectual ways to change, but behaviour is key.
1 like ‱ 5d
@Andy Wallam Yes!
Information Overwhelm: Why Doing Courses Is NOT Changing Your Life
"It's just not working!" If you feel like you’ve been “into self development” for a long time but you’re frustrated with the lack of change (or how long it’s taking to improve), this is for you. I’m going to help you figure out why all that content you’ve been consuming - videos, podcasts, articles, courses, programs - is NOT translating into a new life. read more here... Or listen to this;
2 likes ‱ 7d
@Daniel Munro Very tough. Especially as I always used to see it as, I can't commit to one thing, I have to revolutionize my life all at once, but I never put in the required courageous action.
0 likes ‱ 6d
@Daniel Munro Nice!
Brojo Buddies in Action 😁
Hey Brojo! I met up with my awesome accountability buddy @Jason Stobart in Auckland last month. We have some great videos of the rejection challenges we did. The first one is of me attempting the same exercise that Jason did back during the October 30-day challenge: go to a sex toy shop called Peaches and Cream and ask to buy peaches and cream (spoiler: they do not — definitely qualifies as a rejection 😁). I'll post videos of some of our other challenges in the comments — I think Jason has a few to add too. Overall, completing these challenges with a buddy was so much fun. We both found it interesting how scared or anxious we were before we did each respective challenge and then the immediate rush of adrenaline and confidence we had afterwards.
Brojo Buddies in Action 😁
1 like ‱ 10d
@Dana R Halarious! That takes courage!
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Aaron Frater
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@aaron-frater-8141
I am nearly 60. I am an artists, and was an art teacher. I have been in recovery a long time. I have struggled with CPTSD, ADHD for ever.

Active 4d ago
Joined Aug 1, 2024
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