A short unfolding of a Resentful Part of me

Here we are at Day 7. Not as an accomplishment, not as a finish line, but as another moment to pause and meet what’s here. Over the last week, you’ve practiced one simple thing: Stopping the effort to change your experience, and noticing what reveals itself. Today, return once more to the same question:“What is here right now… if I stop trying to change anything?” As you paused: - What did you notice today that you maybe couldn’t see on Day 1? - What feels more familiar, more accessible, more natural? - What unfolded simply by giving your experience a little space each day? This isn’t the end of something. It's a glimpse of what becomes possible when you relate to yourself with gentleness instead of pressure. Drop your Day 7 reflection below: What revealed itself today and what do you want to continue noticing moving forward? 🌱

Most of us move through life like a single chip on the plate — trying to keep our edges clean, trying not to break, trying to look put-together next to all the other chips. But reality… doesn’t actually work that way. If you’ve ever eaten nachos, you know the truth. At some point, all the chips at the bottom become one giant, glorious, cheesy mass. You can pretend you’re picking up an individual chip, but you’re really lifting the entire ecosystem with it. This is what oneness is like. We think we’re separate, but underneath the neat little piles we try to present, we’re all resting in the same melted ground of being, the same warmth, the same essence, the same gooey mix of joy, sorrow, fear, hope, tenderness, humanity. There’s no single nacho that exists apart from the others.There is only the nacho-ness, expressing itself as many shapes. And the wild thing? The “messy” parts, the cheese that sticks, the beans that smear across everything, the jalapeños that show up where you didn’t expect, those are what hold everything together.T hose are the parts we usually try to hide in ourselves… and yet they might be the very proof that we’re not separate at all. So today’s reflection: What keeps you still experiencing yourself to be a perfectly separate chip…when you might already be part of the great, delicious, all-one nacho? What softens when you let yourself feel that you’re not alone, not separate, not isolated, but fundamentally connected, supported, and held in the same melted field as everyone else? Share below if anything unfolds. And yes… extra guac is always welcome. 🥑✨

I’m opening up something special here…and I want the very first people in this community to experience it in the deepest way possible. To kick off The Unfolding Community, I’m giving the first 10 founding members something I’ve never offered before: 4 free Unfolding Sessions with me — completely free. To be used within 60 days. These are small, intimate sessions where we slow down together, attune to the core principles of unfolding, explore a key resource state, and dissolve the reactivity that keeps us stuck. You’ll walk away clearer, calmer, more grounded, and more connected to who you actually are. If you’ve been craving a place to feel supported, seen, and part of something real… this is the moment. There’s no pressure and nothing to fix.Just space to unfold into a fuller version of yourself — alongside others doing the same. If you want to be one of the 10 founding members, drop a comment saying “unfolding” or message me directly and I’ll get you set up. Can’t wait to begin this with you. 🌿

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