The Self-Preservation instinct focuses on our well-being, security, and the practical foundations of life. It asks: "Do I have enough?" (House, food, money, resources etc) Question: How much of your attention this week has been devoted to maintaining your life and how much has been available for truly living it? Just notice. Awareness itself is valuable.

The One-to-One instinct is attuned to attraction. It pulls us towards others, captivates us, and calls for our energy. It relates more to connecting with an individual. This instinct isn't only about relationships. It also shows up in our passions, interests, and the things that awaken a sense of vitality. Reflection: What are you magnetized toward these days and what might that attraction be trying to show you about yourself?

Happy happy Father’s Day to @Brad Weyant and all the other fabulous dads in this group. In this group especially, it warms my heart to see so many dads doing the self-reflection and self-awareness work. Your kids are so lucky to have such such thoughtful men in their lives setting such amazing examples. ❤️

Type Six often asks: “What could go wrong?” This gift helps you anticipate problems, prepare well, and support those around you. Today, notice what happens when you shift the question from: “What if things go wrong?” to “What if I can handle whatever comes?” Trust is not the absence of uncertainty. Trust is discovering your capacity to meet life as it unfolds.

Hi all, I've been pretty absent the past month. My other water business completely swallowed me up, and then we went on vacation to Mexico! Everything is really good. It's just taken up every second of my available time, leaving very little space to interact here. I'm actively working on a plan to hire someone and free myself back up. At the same time, I'm doubling down on a 3–5 year path toward some goals over there, which would likely involve exiting the business at the end of that journey. That requires my time and attention right now. I still have a few coaching clients outside of this group, and I'm going to intentionally limit the growth of that for the time being as well. So what do I do with this Skool community that would still be fun for me, a light lift, and contribute to supporting others on their growth journey? I've decided to start sharing the Enneagram here. I've spent nearly a decade studying it from a variety of teachers and traditions, and it's been one of the most valuable maps I've found for understanding ourselves and the patterns that shape our lives. I can say the day I learned about the Enneagram was a pivot point in my life that can not be undone. I see the world in the patterns within the system. I want to keep it simple. Not my full on in depth unfolding / coaching work. I'll share what I know and keep this group very basic and an easy lift for everyone each week. I'd love to hear what you'd like to learn as I bring pieces to the system here. Grateful for you all.