Chasing looks like this:
→ Discounting to win work
→ Over-explaining your value
→ Saying yes to the wrong clients
→ Following up people who were never serious
→ Feeling slightly desperate, even if you hide it well
Attraction looks very different.
- Attraction is clarity.
- Attraction is standards.
- Attraction is knowing who you are for — and who you are not for.
The best businesses don’t shout louder.
They stand firmer.
They don’t convince.
They demonstrate.
They don’t beg for attention.
They earn trust through consistency, delivery, and confidence.
Here’s the uncomfortable truth:
If you feel like you’re chasing, it’s usually because something is unclear:
- Your positioning.
- Your pricing.
- Your confidence.
- Your boundaries.
Fix those, and the dynamic flips.
Clients lean in.
Opportunities come to you.
Conversations change tone.
Attracting isn’t passive.
It’s disciplined.
And it always starts with this decision:
“I’m not for everyone... and that’s exactly why the right people find me.”