Hey y'all I am currently 14 and have been going against all these addictions for years and I finally believe that I am ready to quit move on and live life to the fullest. I am sure a lot y'all have been in the position I am in right now do any of you have advice you me to help never think about the bad habits or bad things again and only move forward as well as doing well in skl ( I am doing my GCSEs next year which is like exams people in the UK take) Any advice would be appreciated 🤝

Hey everyone! Glad to be here and in the tribe. I didn’t really know what to say for my first post, chat, whatever you wanna call it. Anyway, I was just wondering if anyone’s been through anything similar and especially if anyone has some advice for this situation, anyway to the point. I’ve had some concerns with my girlfriend and her family cause she’s been doing maybe 90% of everything for her family. Now I get it if they need it in a pinch or if they just need her to get them something or something like that, but this is just every. Single. Day. Genuinely all year she’s cooking their food, cleaning the whole house and she’s caring for her younger siblings while her mums just sitting around and reaping the benefits. Her mum doesn’t even let her out the house half the time. It’s gotten to the point where she’s using self harm (sh) religiously, granted she hasn’t been able to stop shing since she was a child as that’s how long she’s been doing everything for her family. This could just be me being paranoid but I’m really concerned for her safety and welling. If you have any questions or need any more context just ask and I’ll tell you whatever you need to know. Thanks even for just reading this far!

Happy Friday everyone! As we have gone through the first week of February, I know that there were plenty of things to take away from this week. I was not able to live up to the standards set for myself and I was stuck in bad habits again, such as lust, downing multiple energy drinks throughout the day, binge-gaming, binge-eating, and binge-watching videos. These are the primary symptoms of overstimulation and poor mental health for me and I have been sleep deprived and drained of energy. This is why I must take dopamine detox and mental health practices more seriously in order to find a way out of my comfort zone and step into my calling. Being too comfortable has kept me stuck and has kept me away from understanding my salvation as a man of Christ. I must find a way out of this to step into the light of Christ and to understand my salvation. This will help me to walk as a man of Christ and to overcome sin. Therefore, your prayers and guidance throughout this time would be appreciated here. Doing these things will help me have a clearer vision and I will be able to live by faith, and I will be better encouraged to have a better structure throughout my life and I will have a drive to do the important things. The way I see it, I’m only getting started here. With that being said, I shall take this time to know my salvation and my purpose better as the days go by. And I shall have faith and patience throughout this process. Let’s do this! God Bless you all and you all have a blessed and peaceful weekend! Peace be with you all✌🏻🕊️🙏🏻🫂💓💗❤️✝️