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5 Style Deals Worth Your Attention This Week!
Allen Edmonds Anniversary Sale — Up to 40% off Their biggest sale of the year is live. If you've been waiting to pull the trigger on a pair of Park Aves, Strands, or Higgins Mills, this is the window. US-made, Goodyear-welted, resoleable for decades. A $250 shoe that becomes a $150 shoe doesn't come around often. 👉 allenedmonds.com/browse/sale/new-markdowns Cole Haan Bedford Plain-Toe Derby — $60 at Nordstrom Rack (down from $298) This one is the steal of the month. Clean derby silhouette that works for business casual or dressed-up weekend. British Tan is the best color of the three on sale. Sizes are moving — don't sleep on this. Huckberry — Up to 40% off spring footwear + Flint and Tinder jackets over 50% off Rancourt, Rhodes, Astorflex, Sperry — the full rotation. The Flint and Tinder waxed jackets at 50%+ off are the genuine annual low. 👉 huckberry.com/store/t/category/sale Collars & Co. — Up to 30% off The dress-collar polo brand a lot of you have been asking about since Shark Tank. Solid entry point if you want to try the concept without paying full retail. 👉 collarsandco.com/collections/sale Todd Snyder Clearance Markdowns across suiting, knitwear, and outerwear. Their sale section rotates frequently — worth a scroll if you're building out a more elevated casual wardrobe. 👉 toddsnyder.com/collections/sale Which one are you pulling the trigger on? If you saw other awesome deals that is not included in the list above please drop in the comments below! 🔥
5 Style Deals Worth Your Attention This Week!
Wife’s birthday weekend
Taking my wife away for a wonderful weekend to celebrate her belated birthday. Upping the wardrobe game!! This is the travel for today. Changing to dress trousers and a white open collar shirt for the evening. Different jacket and tie combo tomorrow night. Looking forward to a wonderful time with my favorite human!!
Wife’s birthday weekend
Brownie outfit and a new sling bag!
This is what I sported while shopping for utilities (with wifey) today. Comments are most welcome! 1. I have paired an ivory crew neck Tee with a custom tailored (I found a bespoke tailor, finally) khakhi Chinos in 100% wool for a subtle contrast. 2. I have complemented this base outfit with a new camel trucker jacket in 100% corduroy. 3. Accessories include brown belt and tan loafers in newbuck leather (I am showing the later in the forum for the first time). 4. The showpiece is a cross body sling /messenger bag in blue canvas from Amazon. I got this after a lot of research to fit my four basic requirements: (a) it has to withstand a lot of wear and tear and be water washable (so, no leather), (b) it has to be kind of minimal with no flashy logos, (c) it must have enough room for many many items I carry every time (a 1.0 L water bottle, sanitizer, hand towel, wet tissue pack, key pouch, wallet, mobile phone, two cloth bags for carrying groceries, and an umbrella and (d) it must have two pockets in the front which should hold my wallet and mobile phone comfortably. The feature in this sling bag which provided for (d) was a winner.
Brownie outfit and a new sling bag!
OOTD-CW - 1 May 2026
I have a Styler by LG. It's a large closet-shaped steamer where you hang clothes inside of it for a great steam. It has setting for suits, regular and delicate items, a shelf and setting for knitwear, and - importantly - a creaser for slacks (and much, much more). I experimented with it yesterday to see if it could compare to an iron. The pants in today's photo went into the Styler last night with basically no crease at all. I followed some instructions from my AI bot and let is go a round. The AI bot said a great crease can be created with two straight rounds. I don't think it was needed. The only miss is that is doesn't get the top well. I can flip the pants rightside up and redo the crease to focus on the top as a second run. I welcome your thoughts here. I might just be easy to please. Meetings in and out of the office today so I have an outfit ready for 80 degrees, comfortable, and looking smart. - Shirt — DS-043 (Charles Tyrwhitt): A non-iron sky-blue herringbone dress shirt in 100% cotton with a spread collar and French cuffs—high opacity, soft hand, 5/5 stitch density. The cool sky blue plays beautifully against the green/rust tie and warm earth-tone vest, and the French cuffs justify the cufflinks. - - Undershirt — US-014 (True Classic): A gray cotton/polyester crew-neck that disappears under DS-043's high-opacity weave and stays comfortable through a long day. - - Slacks — SL-007 (Santorelli): Tobacco Wool Super 110 slacks—matte, mid-weight, drapey for warm weather. The tobacco brown bridges the khaki vest above and the dark-brown Chelseas below, while echoing the rust-orange notes in today's tie. - - Vest — VWC-007 (Joseph Abboud): A khaki linen herringbone single-breasted vest with five buttons. Linen is the right call for an 80°F day, and the warm khaki sits in the same family as the tie's crème accents and the slacks' tobacco. - - Tie — NT-045 (Silvio Fiorello, "Mandala of the Universe"): A 3-fold Italian Duchesse silk tie with two-ply wool interlining, hand-rolled edges, slip-stitched, self-tipped. Forest green and malachite green ground the tie, with rust orange and crème geometric mandala patterns layered on top (3.5" wide, 60" long, low sheen). Tied in a half Windsor to suit the spread collar and let the pattern breathe. Honestly the most beautiful tie in the rotation—reason enough to build a day around it (weird that my AI app said this!). - - Tie Bar — TA-004: A gold-plated tie bar with a bird/flowers/lines motif, clamp back. The gold reads as warm metal alongside the brass belt buckle and gold-ringed cufflinks, and ties cleanly into the rust-orange thread in NT-045. - - Cufflinks — CL-022: Mother-of-pearl ovals set in open brushed-gold rings, T-bar mechanism. The MOP echoes DS-043's MOP-like buttons; the gold metal stays in family with the tie bar and brass belt buckle. - - Belt — B-012 (Wolksprong): A brown heavy-duty leather belt with a brass buckle—lightly dotted texture on a flat brown ground, single fixed keeper. Brass anchors the warm-metal story; brown leather pulls the slacks/boots into one continuous earth-tone line. - - Footwear — DSh-010 (Cobbler Union): Dark-brown suede Chelsea boots on the Benjamin/Ritz last—Goodyear-welted in Spain, leather sole, almond toe, recessed fiddleback waist. Suede grounds the linen vest's casual texture and provides a quiet base for the tie's color story. - - Socks — DSo-077 (Kirby Allison): Sovereign Grade Giotto over-the-calf socks in tan with cream small-polkadot melange—92x2 mercerized Mako Egyptian cotton on a 260-needle knit. A refined bridge between tobacco slacks and dark-brown Chelseas, with cream dots that quietly nod to the tie's crème accents. - - Ring — R-001 (Ellie's Jewelry): Platinum and diamond wedding ring—always on. - - Left Watch — W-005 (Fossil Pearson Multifunction): A 42 mm stainless quartz dress multifunction with a hunter-green sunray dial, applied indices, and a havana-brown genuine-leather strap. The green dial is in exact harmony with NT-045's forest-green and malachite-green ground—an unintentionally perfect echo. - - Pen — P-002 (Montblanc Meisterstück 149): The flagship 149 fountain pen in black precious resin with platinum trim, 18K gold BB nib, piston filler, Royal Blue ink. Slips into the shirt's center-split pocket for meeting notes. - - Business Card Case — BCC-005 (Frank Clegg): USA-made bifold goatskin card case in Bluestone, no metal hardware—keeps the mixed brass/gold metals story uncomplicated. - - Fragrance — FR-005 (Roberto Ugolini Loafer): A woody chypre extrait built on citrus, florals, moss, patchouli, and woods—moderate-to-strong projection, 6–8 hour longevity. The slightly artsy, intellectual feel matches the linen-and-mandala-tie energy of the day. -
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