User
Write something
LIVE Style, Fragrance, Watches is happening in 14 days
Pinned
Shoutout To Chad Smith & Dr. Jason Cole (Setting the Standard!)
Shoutout to a couple of members who set the tone for what makes this community great! First, @Chad Smith with a strong OOTD post. He did exactly what helps others learn: he shared the full outfit breakdown, the details, and the why behind it — from the navy cable knit and brown polo to the indigo 501s, oxblood double monks, matching strap, scent, and watch. That kind of post gives other men real examples they can study and apply. (Link to post) Second, @Dr. Jason Cole for jumping in to help @Ken Erickson with a style question on black tux shoes. That kind of thoughtful member-to-member guidance is exactly what builds a real brotherhood here — not just posting, but showing up to help someone make a better decision when it matters. Ken’s question itself was a great one too: plain toe, cap toe, wingtip, or even black dress boots with a tux. (Link to comment) Post your outfits. Ask your questions. Help your fellow members. That’s how we all get sharper!
Shoutout To Chad Smith & Dr. Jason Cole (Setting the Standard!)
Pinned
This Stops Being About Clothes
There's a shift that happens for some men. They stop asking "does this look okay?" and start knowing. Not because they memorized rules — but because they've built a standard for themselves. A quiet confidence that doesn't need to announce itself. You see it in how they walk into a room. In how people respond to them before they say a word. In how much mental energy they have left for things that actually matter. That's not style. That's identity. And identity isn't bought — it's built, through consistent habits and deliberate choices made over time. That's what RMRS Premium is designed for. Not trends. Not outfit grids. A structured path to becoming the man who looks sharp because of who he is — not what he's wearing. If that shift sounds like something you want, the door's open: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/plans
This Stops Being About Clothes
Glasses
I've read plenty about style with regard to clothing and fit. But I haven't seen much regarding eye wear. I'm going to have an eye exam soon and need to pick out new frames. Any suggestions on style of frames for a guy in his 60's? What should I stay away from? color? full frame? rimless? etc.
After the Show!
Did a one-hour stage show as a fundraiser for an elementary school. Between loading and unloading equipment in 90°F (32°C) heat, I decided to dress casually and change at the venue, which fortunately had a full dressing room. But a one-hour high-energy magic show under stage lights, running out into the audience every few minutes, is a serious workout. So I was pleasantly surprised when the client asked me to pose in front on one of their photo backdrops after the show, and I didn’t look sweaty and exhausted. The fit (totally breathable): Custom black camel hair frock coat with silk lining, Dennis Kitmore Studio, Washington, DC Custom purple and gold silk brocade vest, silk lining, Betsy Mitchell Henning. Purple silk tie, Macy’s White 100% cotton wrinkle-resistant dress shirt, Pronto Uomo (Men’s Wearhouse’s house brand) $3 at thrift store new with tags. Black wool trousers, Michael Strahan Collection, Men’s Wearhouse Not pictured: black Merino wool socks, Amazon; Black Florsheim cap toe Oxford shoes, DXL
0
0
After the Show!
The Science of the "Smart-Casual"
This ensemble is an example of High-Street Heritage. Here is why this look works: 1. The Tonal Power Play By pairing a deep Brooks Brothers Navy with Bonobos Sky Blue, you’re utilizing a monochromatic axis that elongates the silhouette. Psychologically, this combo signals Reliability (the Navy) meets Approachability (the Light Blue). It says you’re the smartest person in the room, but also the one people actually want to talk to. 2. The "Whiskey" Anchor The real hero? Those Allen Edmonds Whiskey Oxfords. In a sea of blue, the warm, burnished leather acts as a visual anchor. It provides a necessary "pop" of warmth that signals high-level competence and an eye for detail. 3. Precision in the Details The synergy between the Elliott Havok navy dial and the gold signet ring isn't an accident—it’s a strategy. Coordinating your metals with your leathers creates a "finished" look that separates the amateurs from the authorities. Key Strengths - ​Vertical Cohesion: Using navy for both the top and the watch/socks creates a "sandwich" effect that elongates the frame. - ​Footwear Execution: The whiskey-tone calfskin provides a necessary warm counterpoint to an otherwise cold palette. - ​Grooming Synergy: The gold signet ring and gold watch case (as seen in the macro image) coordinate perfectly with the warm tones of the shoes. Primary Concerns / Fixes The "Break" Issue: Ensure the light blue trousers have a "no-break" or "quarter-break" hem. Any bunching at the ankle will ruin the streamlined aesthetic of the tapered leg. Collar Integrity: Without a jacket, the polo collar must remain crisp. Use hidden collar stays or a "Placket Stay" to prevent the collar from flattening under its own weight. Texture Gradient: The outfit is very "smooth." Adding a braided leather belt in a matching whiskey shade would introduce a much-needed tactile element to the midsection. Expert Pro-Tip: To keep this look sharp, ensure your trousers have a "no-break" hem. A clean line at the ankle keeps the silhouette modern and prevents the light fabric from looking sloppy.
The Science of the "Smart-Casual"
1-30 of 29,095
Real Men Real Style Community
Leverage style to earn more money and build unshakeable confidence. This is a community for professional men serious about self-improvement.
Leaderboard (30-day)
1
+5319
2
+4363
3
+4281
4
+3873
5
+3663
Powered by