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There's a shift that happens for some men. They stop asking "does this look okay?" and start knowing. Not because they memorized rules — but because they've built a standard for themselves. A quiet confidence that doesn't need to announce itself. You see it in how they walk into a room. In how people respond to them before they say a word. In how much mental energy they have left for things that actually matter. That's not style. That's identity. And identity isn't bought — it's built, through consistent habits and deliberate choices made over time. That's what RMRS Premium is designed for. Not trends. Not outfit grids. A structured path to becoming the man who looks sharp because of who he is — not what he's wearing. If that shift sounds like something you want, the door's open: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/plans
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5 Style Deals Worth Your Attention This Week!
Allen Edmonds Anniversary Sale — Up to 40% off Their biggest sale of the year is live. If you've been waiting to pull the trigger on a pair of Park Aves, Strands, or Higgins Mills, this is the window. US-made, Goodyear-welted, resoleable for decades. A $250 shoe that becomes a $150 shoe doesn't come around often. 👉 allenedmonds.com/browse/sale/new-markdowns Cole Haan Bedford Plain-Toe Derby — $60 at Nordstrom Rack (down from $298) This one is the steal of the month. Clean derby silhouette that works for business casual or dressed-up weekend. British Tan is the best color of the three on sale. Sizes are moving — don't sleep on this. Huckberry — Up to 40% off spring footwear + Flint and Tinder jackets over 50% off Rancourt, Rhodes, Astorflex, Sperry — the full rotation. The Flint and Tinder waxed jackets at 50%+ off are the genuine annual low. 👉 huckberry.com/store/t/category/sale Collars & Co. — Up to 30% off The dress-collar polo brand a lot of you have been asking about since Shark Tank. Solid entry point if you want to try the concept without paying full retail. 👉 collarsandco.com/collections/sale Todd Snyder Clearance Markdowns across suiting, knitwear, and outerwear. Their sale section rotates frequently — worth a scroll if you're building out a more elevated casual wardrobe. 👉 toddsnyder.com/collections/sale Which one are you pulling the trigger on? If you saw other awesome deals that is not included in the list above please drop in the comments below! 🔥
5 Style Deals Worth Your Attention This Week!
OOTD - Thursday 30 April
Into the office today, I have gone with the newest suit in my collection and paired it with the newest shirt in my collection. Also with the newest Shoes. Wow, thats a lot of Newness. Walking around the office precinct looking for a place to get photos does elicit some strange looks from people 😁 Todays outfit consists of; M.J. Bale Lodato Suit in a Burgundy with Navy Overcheck. It is created from a Luxe Wool Blend with a PoW Check. OTAA Pink Oxford Shirt with a Spread Collar OTAA Portofino Peony Bouqute Tie with a nice big Balthus Knot OTAA Silver Shiney Tie Clip Gifted Pocket Square in Pink with Navy and White stripes OTAA Pink Cheeky Monkey Socks CNES MTO Oxford with Goodyear Welted construction, crafted from Italian crust leather and Hand Finished. SOTD - Viktor & Rolf Spicebomb Nightvision WOTD - Invicicta Grand Diver, aka Big Red. I let my youngest choose the watch for the outfit.
OOTD - Thursday 30 April
OOTD-CW - 29 April 2026
CW = Critique welcome! A bit of everything on tap today. Client meetings, vendor coming to the home office, internal calls, yelling at my Montblanc dealer (err, having a "conversation" about a spot of disappointment), and - time permitting - some actual client work to pay the bills. I hope you'll all having a great day. • Jacket — DOJ-008 (Hart Schaffner & Marx): A charcoal gray odd jacket in fully-lined wool with a faint pattern carrying light brown accents, cut for serious business-formal presence. The neutral charcoal anchors the day's warmer red and caramel notes while reading sharp on a video call — a recently tailored piece that brings authority without rigidity. • Shirt — DS-041 (Charles Tyrwhitt): A classic-point collar dress shirt in light blue and navy Prince of Wales check with barrel two-button cuffs. The pattern adds visual interest on camera without competing with the tie's bolder geometry, and the soft blue keeps the warm palette feeling cool and balanced. Estimated 2.5" collar stays. • Undershirt — US-022 (Sene): A custom Peruvian Pima cotton and elastane undershirt in white, fitted MTM and rated excellent for breathability. Invisible under the patterned blue check and quietly comfortable for a day of back-to-back meetings. • Tie — NT-037 (Fort Belvedere): A Regular Self-Tipped tie in Ancient Matter silk and wool challis — red with buff and black, low-sheen finish, hand-rolled edges, three-fold construction. Large repeating geometric patterns with small detail work give it texture and presence; the ancient matter silk is a quiet luxury cue. • Slacks — SL-019 (Ralph Lauren): Light brown wool slacks with a great fit and recent retailoring. The caramel tone provides warm contrast against the charcoal jacket and creates a natural color bridge to the burgundy wingtips and red tie — an earthy foundation for the warmer palette of the day. • Belt — B-009 (Nordstrom): A dark brown leather belt with a polished silver buckle, traditional thick-collar single keeper. Tonally tied to the slacks and shoes while keeping the metals story strictly silver across belt, collar clip, and watch.
OOTD-CW - 29 April 2026
Wife wants to get me a graduation gift
In recognition of my graduation from law school, my wife wants to get me a nice watch....specifically a Rolex. (Money is not a challenge for her). She wisely asked for my input on such an extravagant gift. I have a Submariner (gift from my father), so I'm thinking a nice dress watch like a date just and I'm not opposed to getting preowned. I'm not super familiar with the Rolex options particularly those from the past. I know I do NOT want yellow gold or any gemstones. I'm curious what models you suggest. Any models to avoid?
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