"Dress for the body you have"? Train for the one you want!
The common wisdom of "dressing for the body you have" seems to make sense for the common man. After all, clothes look better when they suit the wearer. However, when I started getting into MTM and bespoke garments, I decided that I wanted to go the other way — to get my (mostly) perfect body before I spend too much money on garments, so I can make sure they fit the body that I want to keep for the next 20-30 years. Advantages of this approach: 1. Having a motivation to improve our physique. 2. Not being demotivated to improve our physique due to already having plenty of clothes designed for our current, inferior one. 3. Avoiding the cost of future alterations (or remakes). 4. In the end, looking better. Because if you're obese, all the tailoring in the world won't make it look *good*, it can just camouflage it and make it look *passable*. So I started training. Since I didn't have any belly to lose, for me, the key areas were: 1. Neck thickness — since that's what determines what shirt collar you can button. I wanted to optimize it. I've mostly been using a simple routine of neck curls, side flexions, and extensions. I found out that once you can neck curl ~5 kg at ~30 reps, this looks like the sweet spot (the neck should optimally be around the width of the jaw). 2. Shoulder positioning — which determines the shoulder position of all shirts and jackets. I focused on upper traps and serratus anterior through Lu raises and similar exercises. This made it so I have much less sloped shoulders than before — their default position looks much healthier and more masculine. 3. Pelvis positioning — not sure how much it affects the pants fit, but I have been training muscles around my pelvis (mostly the inner stomach muscles and the glutes) through exercises like stomach vacuums to counteract the excess lordosis I've developed. Now I've gotten so much into it that I'm also training less important muscles like chest, biceps, and triceps to balance out the huge neck that I grew. 💪